As I come back from Ukraine and other countries that have “traditional” relationship values I can see that I pique the curiosity of my work colleagues. They all want to see photos of Ukrainian Women, they want to know how hard it is to get a visa, how difficult it is to get around if you can’t speak Russian, etc, etc. Invariably, as they hear some of the details of the East, they began to dread the inevitable question that their girlfriend will soon ask, “When are we getting married?”
This is a question that I’ve often debated. Should I get married? I get a lot of pressure from Mom, the relatives and family friends. “When are you getting married?” It is a common question and you are looked at as a bit of a “loser” if you don’t get married before you enter your 40’s. But as I examine the subject more and more, I begin to think that I don’t ever want to get married.
Lets examine what marriage is:
MARRIAGE IS A LEGAL CONTRACT TO GIVE UP HALF OF YOUR POSSESSIONS! Additionally, marriage (and having children) is giving up control of your paycheck for the next 20 years.
Seriously, you can have a relationship with a woman without marriage. You can live together, have sex, have all the “benefits” of marriage without all of the baggage. If you have no plans for children, I suggest that you NEVER get married.
I read the website NoMarriage.com and the author there suggests that the ONLY reason to get married is for the purpose of procreation. Only if you want children should you get married. And if you do, you should take early steps to protect your assets including shielding assets (more on this late) and a strong prenuptial agreement.
In my own case, I do want to have children. But as I have acquired assets (house, car & a bank account), it is simply too dangerous to marry an American Woman. I have decided to marry a foreign woman. I do NOT plan to bring her back to the United States. What makes foreign women attractive is that they are not brainwashed femi-nazis. I suppose that if you bring a Latin, Eastern or Asian Woman to the US, soon she WILL be a femi-nazi. Unless you plan to stay with her 24/7, her American “friends” will soon brainwash her as will the magazines and television.
And it won’t be too long before your foreign bride is getting beauty advice from American women who look like this:
I saw this story and it reminded me of the dangers of marriage (and child rearing) with a western woman. If you do decide to marry a western woman, proceed with caution:
Man hounded for child support for 20 years, but its not his kid:
He says he’s not the father and he’s got proof. A South Side man is back in court Thursday morning trying to convince the state to leave him alone. He’s been in and out of courts for 21 years.
Even the mother of the child says the baby’s not his. CBS2′s Dorothy Tucker takes a look at why the state won’t listen.
“This is not my kid,” said Sean Harbin — and he has the paternity tests to prove he’s not the biological father.
“I’ve had suicidal thoughts, really, about this ordeal, because it’s like every time I try to get on track this comes up,” Harbin said.
He got off track in 1991, when he was ordered to pay $70 a week for a child he initially thought he might have fathered. But when he began to have doubts, he stopped paying. Then the state garnished his wages and kept his income tax refund check — taking more than $3,000.
That’s when Sean started fighting the custody case and in 2001, he was “excluded from paternity.”
“I thought it was over. I just knew it was over,” Harbin said.
But it was far from over. The state kept sending Harbin bills and he kept going to court, filing motion after motion, trying to tell the courts he wasn’t the father. He represented himself because he couldn’t afford an attorney.
“Sean’s biggest mistake was not knowing what petition to ask for,” said an unidentified caseworker from Division of Child Support Services.
“When the genetic test came back, all he had was the results. He never had the order to end the support or vacate the order,” the caseworker said.
In 2006, court papers show that the mother of the child even came to court and admitted that Harbin wasn’t the father, so the state forgave some $40,000 in back payments.
But Harbin still needed to file the correct papers to dismiss the case and he said he found little direction from the courts.
“I’m trying to figure out what do I have to say to them, ‘what motion?'” Harbin said.
In 2009, the state suspended Harbin’s driver’s license. He found that out two months ago.
After CBS 2 made some phone calls, representatives from Child Support Services and the Cook County State’s Attorney’s office said they’ll look into the Harbin’s case and take appropriate action.
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