Equal Rights, Equal Opportunity and Equality

Should I get married?
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… a Western man on a date with a Ukrainian woman in Odessa, Ukraine…

Have you ever really thought about these concepts and what the mean?  These phrases have become such an integral part of our society and speech that we hear them daily but we don’t always analyze what they mean.  In today’s society of political correctness, what these words mean affects the lives of American (western) men.

I remember when I was a boy and my mother used to always say, “Ladies first,” as I stepped aside to let my sisters pass first.  “Ladies first.”  I often hear this and it sounds like a good idea.  Our Western ideals of chivalry suggest that women are the weaker sex and we should “look out” for them, help them along and let them “go first.”  But as I think about it, I begin to see the flaws in this ideal.

Women are afforded equal rights, equal opportunity, and they are being granted college degrees at a higher rate than men.  In the next decade, the pay gap between men and women will close to a point where it might not be present at all.  For all intents and purposes, women have achieved equal opportunity.  And even more so, I have seen many women (and minorities) promoted – not based on merit – but based on anatomy (the presence of a vagina or not) and their skin tone.

I’m not here to argue whether or not affirmative action is a good idea or not.  What I am going to address is the third term on my list: equality.  I’m all for equal rights and equal opportunity.  I believe that women should have access to an education and if they want to work, equal access to a job.  But I am not for equality.  Equality is a myth.  The assumption that once women make equal pay and have ½ of the jobs, ½ of the seats in Congress and lead half of American corporations, that they will achieve “equality” – well, this is bunk.  Men and women will never be equal.  They can have equal rights and opportunities, but that doesn’t make them the same.

This is a fundamental flaw in feminist thinking – the belief that you can make an apple into an orange, make an orange into an apple or create a society where people can’t tell the difference between red and orange.

Even if we “pretend” that an apple and an orange have the same texture and taste the same, we should go a step further and analyze the dynamic between American men and women.  To do this is difficult, especially if you are on the inside looking out.  To be able to examine the American man/woman paradigm, we have to get outside of the influence of American society.  We could read a book or a study about the women of other countries, but that’s not nearly as fun as partying in Odessa, Ukraine or spending two weeks in Rio.

As I travel around the world (I’m about a dozen countries shy of 100) I see and experience the women of other cultures and I have come to the determined belief that American Women are the worst in the world.  They are spoiled, overweight and have a huge sense of entitlement.  And this excludes all of the “crazy” women – another chapter on them later.

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Now, I am all for “dating” western women – especially when it leads to sex.  This is one BIG benefit of feminism – free and open sex.  American (western) women are liberated and have birth control pills.  If they want to “experience life” and they aren’t demanding a wedding ring, I’m all for helping them out.  And I’ve helped a few out this year and had a good time doing it.

While dating women from other western countries, I’ve come to realize that American are at the bottom of the barrel.  They really do believe that they are entitled to “ladies first” but at the same time they want equality.  It doesn’t make any sense as “equality” cannot exist in a society when one person is “first.”

My last American girlfriend – a Jewish-American princess with a sense of entitlement bigger than Delaware – she expected me to pay the bills, support her AND change the baby’s diapers.  She once actually told me, “What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine.”  She was from family money and insisted on a prenuptial agreement before we were to be married.  I had a look at it and found that all of our assets – accumulated prior to marriage – were ours to keep.  All gains on those assets (home appreciation, dividends, stock gains, etc) were also the property of the original holder.  In other words, her money and the interest accumulated on it were all to remain hers.  But the prenup also said that “wages earned” after marriage were community property.  Let me get this straight, I have to share my earnings on work but she doesn’t have to share her earnings on her investments?  I argued with her again and again and eventually we broke up.  She actually believed that this was “fair.”

My American girlfriends expect me to pay for everything and if I want them to fetch me a beer from the fridge they look at me as if I’m some misogynist caveman.  I dated a Swedish woman and when I went to pick up her suit case as we entered a hotel, she wrestled it from my hand with an indignant look on her face, “I’m a Swedish woman, I can carry my own bag!”  She paid ½ of the bills and carried her own luggage.  Equality.

But do I want equality?

The problem is, no matter how much fun I have with Western Women, sooner or later, feminism raises its ugly head.   Ukrainian women don’t think of themselves as “equal” to men.  They think of themselves as “different.”  They expect different treatment and don’t demand “equality.”  They want equal opportunity and rights but they don’t expect “equality.”

Time is on my side.  That is one advantage of being a man.  I’m in no rush.  I can marry a woman ½ my age – well at least in the East, I’d be a “pervert” in the US but in Ukraine its “normal” to marry a woman 15 years your junior.

Men, don’t get married to make “her” happy.  Do it to make you happy.  Don’t bend to the pressures of society and family.  You have all the time in the world and there are (literally) billions of women out there.  Go to the gym, save some money and get out and travel.  There are women the world over that can make you happy – don’t stick with a femi-nazi who believes that “equality” is synonymous with “fair.”  Screw fair, do what is right for you.

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Should I get married?
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12 thoughts on “Equal Rights, Equal Opportunity and Equality

  1. “I’m all for equal rights and equal opportunity. I believe that women should have access to an education and if they want to work, equal access to a job.”

    I’m sorry, but if you believe these things, then you are a feminist. I am a feminist. This pretty much sums up my beliefs.

    People like your ex (who want unequal rights favoring THEM) are some other kind of -ist entirely.

    • I’m sorry Fat Cow, but you are wrong. Believing in equal access is not the same as feminism. Feminism teaches EQUALITY – specifically, that Men and Women are the same. Having equal access to an education does not mean that Men and Women are the same. I talk to Eastern European Women about this debate and they can’t believe that American women think that they are the same as Men. Feminists believe that it is “normal” for the Woman to work while the husband is at home changing diapers. This is not only wrong, it is unnatural. I prefer a Woman who wants to be a Woman, not one who wants to compete with Men.

  2. You’re a well spoken, well traveled, and revolutionary soul. Kudos to you for speaking the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Please, expand, elaborate, and keep it comin!!!!

  3. This is ridiculous. Why don’t you just be human and forget what the rules and stereotypes are? Men and women are equal, equally important. Sounds like you’ve dated a bunch of bitches, and maybe you don’t realize how bitter you’ve become. There are ways to get what you want, women have obviously figured these things out, why can’t you. “Hey, would you mind getting me a beer?” May not go over as well as “Hey, beautiful would you mind getting me a cold one?” Do you see the difference? And if you are in a truly
    Loving relationship you like doing things for each other because you respect and love each other. You should be doing dishes and changing diapers, they are your dishes and your babies too. And your woman should be working and mowing the lawn. It’s called being fair and working together. It’s not Leave It To Beaver, it’s real life.

    • Stefanie, thank you from the bottom of my heart for your comment. Really, I go weeks, even months waiting for a comment as perfect as yours for pointing out everything that this site stands for.

      Let’s break it down line by line:

      “This is ridiculous.”

      – This is the same thing that every drug-user says when they’re brought in to an intervention. Just because it doesn’t fit with your reality doesn’t mean its ridiculous. Perhaps, your reality is skewed…?

      “Why don’t you just be human and forget what the rules and stereotypes are?”

      – Typical feminist baiting; accuse those with differing opinions of being misogynist or neanderthals. The whole point of feminism is to break down traditional male-female roles. That’s the point of this site, there are men who want traditional roles. There are women out there who want traditional roles. This site helps to bring both parties together and to educate men that it is OK. Why is it that all of the traditional women I know, they couldn’t care less what feminist women do. Yet, every feminist thinks its her duty to “fix” traditional women to become feminists?

      “Men and women are equal, equally important.”

      – Well, you have it half right. Men and women are equally important. That is what traditionalists believe. But Men and women are NOT equal. They are different. They are equally important, just as the brain and the heart are equally important to the body. But feminists seem to think that the heart and the brain are the same. This is wrong and it is the fatal flaw of feminism.

      “Sounds like you’ve dated a bunch of bitches, and maybe you don’t realize how bitter you’ve become.”

      – I’ve dated my fair share and let me say this, once I switched to “other than American women” I’ve come to realize just how bad American Men have it. Am I bitter? Not at all; I’m quite happy about it. But I can say this, most Western women are QUITE bitter about it – as you seem to be – that Men have found that they can have a “Leave it to Beaver” 1960’s style marriage, and this scares the hell out of you.

      “There are ways to get what you want, women have obviously figured these things out, why can’t you.”

      – Oh, now that’s rich. Yes, Western women have found out how to get their cake, eat it too and then take everything in between. You ask why can’t I figure it out? I have. I have realized that if a feminist American woman wants 85%, all I can do is find a woman who is happy with 50%. These women exist in Russia. In America they are like unicorns and pots of gold under the rainbow.

      “Hey, would you mind getting me a beer?” May not go over as well as “Hey, beautiful would you mind getting me a cold one?” Do you see the difference?

      – No one treats their wife/girlfriend better than I treat mine. She comments to me daily how wonderful I am. The problem with your argument is that even if you ask “Beautiful, bring me a cold one,” your American “partner” is more likely to tell you to get it yourself and while you’re at it, to get her one too! My woman cooks me dinner every day and I can’t say that I’ve ever been happier.

      “And if you are in a truly Loving relationship you like doing things for each other because you respect and love each other.”

      – We do. I earn a paycheck and bring it home. She cooks me dinner. She packs our bags before a trip and I carry them. She does the dishes and I cut the grass. We do love and respect each other. I respect her as a wife and she respects me as the head of the household.

      “You should be doing dishes and changing diapers, they are your dishes and your babies too. And your woman should be working and mowing the lawn. It’s called being fair and working together.”

      – Yes, if I was a feminized wimp of a man I should also be changing diapers and cooking. Fortunately, I have a traditional woman and I don’t have to worry about such things. And thank God that my Woman still wears dresses and acts like a Woman. She’s not out cutting trees and grass. As I pass woman road workers I think to myself how lucky I am to have a traditional Woman and not some she-man road worker. “Being fair and working together” works for what corporation? which sports team? Which country? This is the problem with feminism and so much “partner” talk. There can be a team Captain and team players, like in the old days. I want this, my fiance wants this and so do so many other men. But its not good enough for you. You want that we act like a pair of asexual creatures; she wears pants, I change diapers. How well is that working for American marriages? Check the divorce rate and go figure how its not working. And even if you act like a 50/50 partner, most American women still want the moon too. Thank you no. I’ve been to the other side and the grass is truly greener.

      “It’s not Leave It To Beaver, it’s real life.”

      – It IS Leave it to Beaver and it is real life for many men. Sorry if that bothers you.

      Think about this. I have NEVER met a man who has been to Russia, Ukraine, Columbia, Thailand who has returned to the US and married an American woman. Think about that for a minute. You’re trying to sell me a bill of goods that may be in YOUR best interest, but not in the best interest of ANY MAN. And so, Men will continue to dump American women who have priced themselves out of the market, feminist women will react by belittle these men and their foreign wives and in the end, the Men married to the foreign women will be happy and so many feminist women will complain “Where have all the good men gone?

      • “Think about this. I have NEVER met a man who has been to Russia, Ukraine, Columbia, Thailand who has returned to the US and married an American woman. Think about that for a minute. ”

        I’m one of those men.

      • Thank you. Traditional relationship is the best any man in the world can ever have or get. who want a woman that will disrespect them.

  4. I agree.
    Step outside the matrix to get the big picture…
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    “To be able to examine the American man/woman paradigm, we have to get outside of the influence of American society. We could read a book or a study about the women of other countries, but that’s not nearly as fun as partying in Odessa, Ukraine or spending two weeks in Rio.”
    —————————
    …all the studying in the world is not going to compare to being a man fully aware of his options with a month long stay in male friendly non-feminist zone.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_pill_and_blue_pill

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