I receive a fair amount of hate mail, most of it from feminists and fat chicks (or both). I delete the majority of it but save some of the “gems” for later posts. I received this mail and I was tempted to delete it as it is quite rude, but as I thought about it I realized that:
1. I’m sometimes rude on this site. What’s the saying, “Don’t throw stones if you live in a glass house?”
2. We might learn something from this email.
And so, I publish this comment in its entirety, completely unedited except that I hid part of her email address for security and privacy. My comments follow her email. Oh, and Trey, thanks for sending your photo (above) with your email. You’re right, you are a lot of woman to love!
Comment from Trey, designchick….@gmail.com
in response to my post, “Never Make Fun of Fat Girls.”
OK, so let’s see your pic, big boy! I’m sure you’re 6’5″ with an “athletic” build and ripped muscles…right? Because obviously such a fine male specimen as yourself, who has to rely on financially desperate women in an economically disadvantaged country for dates HAS to be drop-dead gorgeous! How could you not be? So let’s see the pix, guy! Full body shots and face close-ups.
I’d lay $50 – no, make that $100 – that you are a pasty-faced, doughy, short, bald guy with back acne.
Let me ask you a serious question. How long has it been since you’ve had sex you DIDN’T have to pay for? Do you have the guts to answer that question?
First off, thanks Trey for your comment. As a constitutionalist, I’m all for free speech and an open and spirited debate. I believe that as long as no opinions are squashed and people can hear both sides of every argument, most people will figure out the truth. As I used to tell my employees who came to me with gossip, I would say, “Don’t worry about it. You can fool some of the people all of the time, all of the people some of the time, but sooner or later, we all know who’s working and who isn’t and who’s full of shit and who isn’t.
That being said, let’s break down Trey’s comments one by one.
Now that 3/4 of employers check Facebook pages & do a Google search of applicants – pretty much everything you say on the internet becomes a public record. There is now software recognition software that can search the net for your photo and pull you up even if you use a pen name or post your photo anonymously. That said, this is a controversial website. The last thing that I am going to do is post my own photo here. But, I’ve met a few of the guys from this site while overseas – especially in Odessa – they can vouch for what I say below.
Trey accuses me of being a “pasty-faced, doughy, short guy with back acne,” and someone who can only get sex by paying for it.
For the record, I’m in my early 40’s, I work out 3 days in 4, I’m 6’2″ and weigh 195lbs. I have a muscular build – no washboard abs, but no beer gut either. I’d say that I’m “average” looking with an athletic build. I do not have a problem meeting western women and going out with them. It seems though, that we are always fighting for the relationship steering wheel. American women (especially) think of marriage as a “partnership” whereas I think of a more traditional relationship. As for pasty-faced, doughy, short & back acne, sorry, but I have none of those things.
But, lets say that I was short with back acne. Does that suddenly mean that I’m not entitled to date a super-model? According to Trey it does. You can only date hot models if you are Brad Pitt. And if you go to another country to find hot women, you are some sort of deviant for preying on “desperate women in economically disadvantaged areas.”
At first sound of that, it almost sounds like she’s making sense. But as I think about it, to go to an economically disadvantaged area is a bad thing? Why? Because fat Trey sets the moral rules for the rest of us? Or is it because that fat Trey knows that if you go overseas and you see the hot women, who are thin, who aren’t bitchy, who don’t dress like men who want to be women, Trey knows that if you see these women, you won’t want ANYTHING to do with her. She’s like a bunch of union workers pissed off because their high paying jobs have been outsourced to workers who will work twice as hard for half the pay.
I understand Trey’s objections but I don’t agree with her making me out to be some sort of deviant for doing what is best for me and my future. And without doubt, marrying a foreign woman is a much better way to go than marrying an American woman with a built-in sense of entitlement, a woman who is already pushing maximum density and after she blows up in marriage, she will take you in divorce court for every penny you’ve saved.
Feminists have done a great job of brainwashing our society that dating outside of a western country somehow makes you a loser. So, lets say I was a pasty-faced doughboy. Maybe I have a six figure salary, maybe I’m really funny, maybe I’m loyal or maybe I have some other redeeming qualities other than a Brad Pitt physique and smile. According to Trey, these characteristics aren’t suitable if you go overseas for love. Most American women I know use sex (or the promise of it) to get just about whatever they want. Even the fat women have men jumping on one leg to please them. And western women like this power that they have over western men – because we’re a captive audience. And this power has gone to their heads and now they are a bunch of rotten apples. I suggest that you pass the barrel full of rotten apples and walk to the overseas apple orchard. And for this, I’m a deviant.
Hell no. There is nothing wrong with shopping what you have to offer all around the world. If a poor but beautiful woman in Siberia is only interested in a man who will pay the bills and be loyal to her, who is Trey to say that this is wrong? I say to all western men, take whatever assets you have and shop them. Whether it be your face, your physique, your humor or your paycheck – use it and get the best woman you can. If it means flying to Kamchatka, Russia in the dead of winter, it beats being married to a miserable fat bitch with a sense of entitlement. Life is too short. If you are shopping for keeps (marriage) – get a woman who wants to be a wife, not a “life-partner.”
And finally, I’ll address Trey’s suggestion that I only get laid if I pay for it. I’ll have to admit that after reading David D’Angelo’s book, “Double Your Dating,” I’ve had a LOT more success dating western women. But it really is pathetic that the quickest way into the pants of a western woman is by using mind games. The quickest way into a Ukrainian Woman’s pants is with a wedding ring and a promise of fidelity.
But, let me ask this rhetorical question. I suggest that every man pays for sex whether it be a prostitute, a wife or a girlfriend. Don’t take my word for it – I’m sure you know some man who was divorced. Ask him, “How much did it cost?” Be sure to not only include the child support payments & the alimony, but also the distribution of the “marital assets,” and then also include the cost of putting a roof over her head, groceries in the refrigerator, insurance for the car, the electric & cable bill, dining out on Friday night, landscaping and chemicals for the pool. Ask any divorced guy to add up what he spent during the years of marriage and the previous courtship and then subtract what he would have spent those same years if he was single. You’ll find bills in the hundreds of thousands of dollars. Now consider that the average married couple has sex only two or three times a week, say 100 to 150 times a year. Add up those years of marriage and divide the number of times you get laid versus the cost of marriage against being single. You’ll find that you probably could remain single and fly to Vegas every weekend, blow big cash on high-priced call girls and champagne and still come out ahead!
If you are going to invest in a life-long relationship, do you want to be saddled to a feminist who (deep down inside) loathes your masculinity and thinks you’re the enemy or a woman who sees and appreciates you for what you are?
I’ll give up a point here and apologize to the fat women of America who are also nice ladies. The point of my post Never Make Fun of Fat Girls wasn’t (necessarily) to poke fun at overweight people. It was to point out the dichotomy that even fat women in America behave as if they were super-models. They act as if they can do no wrong; they don’t have to work out, they don’t have to dress like women and just because they have a vagina, you have to do what they wish if you want to get laid. Well, guess what? You can go overseas and find a beautiful & thin woman, who will treat you like a king and she won’t have her mind full of feminazi propaganda. Maybe if more Russian Women came to America, our women would put down the Bic Mac and get on the stair climber.
I was talking with some new guys at work and they were surprised when I said that I don’t even date western women anymore. And I seriously don’t. I don’t even look at them. Sure, I’ll admire them for their looks – but when they open their mouth and start talking, I lose any interest almost immediately.
I’ve been talking to a few women from online and I’m making plans to go back to Russia in a few months to meet one or two. And as I think about the tired lines I hear from American women – women who are afraid of competition – I can’t help but chuckle. The smart guys will get out of their country and go to South America, to Asia or to Eastern Europe and see what real women look like and hear what real women sound like.
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