… next time you go out of the house, have a look around – does the average Woman in your town look like this? …
A few glasses of wine on my flight and I feel a familiar alcohol buzz that tells me it is time for some creative writing. I have a few blogs on several topics but the “Fat Cow” (Corpulent Bovine) comments have stirred my creative juices and I feel like doing a little writing to THIS blog.
This post will cover my visit to Russia for 3 weeks in December 2012; in reality, it is now 27 January and I’m flying back from Europe to the US after meeting my girlfriend (Russian) again. But, I’ve been a little “behind” in writing to this blog; interestingly – when you are “busy” in romance, blogging doesn’t seem so important – LOL. But, after a few drinks, on a boring flight, the boredom allows for some writing.
I remember a road trip through Central America some years ago. I “hooked up with” (that’s Latin for I met a fellow female traveler who was in need of some male attention) a Swedish Woman and we shagged our way across Guatemala and Honduras. I remember, as I went to pick up her suitcase (and mine), she said, “I am Swedish Woman, I can carry my own bag.” I was raised as a traditional “gentleman,” and taught by mother and father to open doors for ladies, let them on the elevator first, open their car door, help them put on their jacket, etc. I’m sure that you get the point. But there, in the humid tropics of Central America, this tall, blond-haired, blue-eyed Swedish woman (with a VERY ample bosom) was telling me that she found it offensive that I tried to help her with her bags. OK Norske Goddess, carry your own bag.
And 15 years later, this same woman contacts me on facebook. I see that she is still unmarried, still dating the same guy for 20 years (yes, her “Central American vacation” was a sexual-sideshow-escape. I suppose from her beau). She has no ring on her finger, no children, no home, no “legal” commitment, just a “feminist” relationship of her “partner.”
[Sidenote: Sweden’s population is in decline save for the HUGE influx of immigration from the Middle East and Central America. In a generation or two, the Blue-eyed Swede will be replaced by the Turk, the Kurd and the Guatemalan. Not that there is anything wrong with this, but history shows that feminism = the decline and ultimate destruction of a genetic group. In other words once your women embrace feminism, your population will decline and will be replaced by immigrants.]
In other words, she is with some guy but has no “official” commitment. She has no kids, no husband, just some feminist “politically correct” “partner” – for whatever that is worth. I suppose that in 5 or 6 years, she will try to have him knock her up and if he resists, she will begin to search for online sperm donations.
I remember her words, “I’ll carry my own luggage.” As if my assistance to her was some sort of insult to her feminism. An insult to her independence. An insult to her strength as a Woman.
Now, fast-forward a decade and a half. I’m with my new Russian girlfriend and she is telling me a story about how her car was broken and she couldn’t get to work. I asked, “What did you do?” She said, “I called my father.” When I asked “why,” (and the reason I asked was that I was curious why she didn’t just “take care of” the problem herself. She answered (and it surprised me), “Because I don’t have a husband.”
Me: No, I mean, why didn’t you just call a service to come and fix your car.
Alana: What? That’s Man’s responsibility. Why would I take care of car? That is my Father’s role.
I thought back, “I can carry my own luggage.”
My new Russian Girlfriend expects me to do all of the “traditional” male jobs and she expects to do the traditional female jobs. Realize, she is a working professional with a college degree. She comes from a well respected family (read, “old family”) from the city that she is in and she has many subordinates at work. But, in her private life, she wants (and expects) a man who “is a man” and acts as such. In other words, she is looking for (and expects) a man who will cut the lawn, wash the car, clean the pool and change the car’s oil. In return, she will cook up a nice dinner (even if she is coming home from a long day at work – in fact, I am often surprised when, after she has worked for 10 hours, and I’ve lounged around my apartment all day doing stock trading, she will come in and cook up a lovely (and delicious) dinner). My American chums would be green with envy. And afterwards, she tries to wash the dishes. Now, here is where I, like most American Men, have an inherent sense of “fairness.” She cooks, I insist on cleaning. I see her beam with a huge smile. Me “doing the dishes” scores major points. And, compared to most Russian Men who have never washed a load of dishes or clothes in their life, I seem like “quite the catch” in Russia.
I tell you Men, if you don’t have a Russian (or Thai, or Columbian or Ukrainian) Woman – you’re doing it all wrong.
I eat like a King. My Woman treats me like a Man and cherishes being treated like a Woman and I couldn’t be happier.
Now, don’t think that I don’t have female drama. A Russian Woman is just as “emotional” as an American Woman. I get regular “excitement” in the form of male-female misunderstandings and feminine drama. But, when the cards sort out, she says that she appreciates how “logical” and “grounded” I am and how she finds comfort in it. She feels that she can lean on me when she feels “nervous.” Her word for when she acts like a Woman and most American Men say, “Oh, it must be the PMS.” But, she never “Man-bashes” me for being “logical” or for being “unemotional.” Instead, she thanks me for being unemotional. What a change.
When my American girlfriends had a spasmodic (emotional) outburst and I remain calm, I am often accused of being insensitive. Feminism teaches that a non-pussified Man is a chauvinist. A “pussified” man cries at Meryl Streep movies and acts like the gay guy at the hair salon who is friends with all the women. And then, in the same breath, American woman bemoan how there are no “strong” men and how they want a masculine man. American woman – at least in my opinion – are severely confused. They’ve listened to the lesbian magazine authors from New York who hate men, who write about hating men, and the American woman have become confused in their sense of entitled delusion.
Fortunately, the entire Eastern side of Europe is full of Women who have not been exposed to feminism. Take advantage of it men. Get you one while you can. In another 20 years, MTV and Oxygen TV shows will spread to Russia and ruin the next crop of beautiful traditional women.
I have mine. I am content. I will continue to write to this blog and tell about my journey with my new-found love. And, I’ll throw in the occasional bashing of the visiting “Corpulent Bovines” (Fat Cows).
Good luck in your search!
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