… Ukrainian Woman – compare to the American woman at the bottom of this post …
Who could have thought that writing a blog could be so difficult? I go on vacation with my lovely Russian Girlfriend and when I return I find a whole string of vile comments and emails lambasting me for being such a “vile bastard,” “how dare I insult Western women in this way.”
I suppose that it is a free world, no one points a gun at your head and makes you visit my site. If you don’t like what I’ve written, don’t come back. It is amazing that some people will post comments over and over assuming that I’ll allow them to use MY blog as their soap box. Hey, go and start your own blog if your opinion is so important.
It gets me to thinking – perhaps I’ve struck a raw nerve with some women (Western) and they aren’t happy about me shining some light on this incipient feminism and bad attitude(s) that pervade our thought. Geez, even some men are bitching at me – if they really are men. No Facebook login required post a comment (yet).
But, there are a lot of good comments. I’ll start with one of those. When I receive emails/comments like this it inspires me to keep this blog open. There have been MANY times where I think that I should close it down. “What if your girlfriend sees it?” “What if your MOTHER sees it?” Well, it shouldn’t be a surprise to them, I bash Western women regularly – its nothing they haven’t heard. And so, I received this email from Peter. I don’t think I’ll even add any comment, it says all I could think to say:
My name is Peter and I am 36, married, and have one child. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your blog. I thought my father was the only one who thinks the way you do. He is on his 3rd marriage and told me, actually has begged me to look at going overseas to find someone.
Costa Rica was his suggestion. I can’t even begin to tell you what he endoured over the years at the hands of western women. Yet I find myself doing almost the same thing. Nowhere near as bad but life shortening to say the least.
I consider myself an educated alpha male. Fair but firm. Hurt beyond belief however by my attractive wife due to her man hating mentality. I did not date much growing up. Low self esteem, abusive mother had some to do with it I’m sure.
My confidence has gone up quite a bit over the years but quite a bit of damage has been done. I do commend you on having the balls and the resources to do something about it.
There is a lot of wisdom in what you and my father have said. I guess my question is, is it ever too late to get busy living? I hope things are going well for you. Take care of yourself and thank you for writing your blog. It gives me something to look forward to, and to wish for. I just wish I found it sooner.
All the best….
I also received a nice email from Jim who had questions about getting a Russian Visa:
I got my visa a couple days late. I don’t know why. I leave for Moscow in one week!
Good for you Jim, I hope the lady(ies) that you go to meet live up to your expectations.
Travis from California invited me out for beers and said that I’m doing a great job – a service to the community.
There are many more but I don’t want to make this post too long. Lets get to some of the HATE MAIL:
Well, Emma’s email isn’t quite hate mail, she says:
As a Westerner, I share your frustration about the whole dating and marriage situation; I think that is one of the reasons why I’m so happy with my man, he comes from a culture with more traditional values. Though having said that, he compliments me on the fact that I don’t wear too much makeup and can relax and have fun with him at the beach etc. I think that there is more to being feminine than high heels and nice dresses – I see it as looking after his needs in their entirety.
Women aren’t meant to be men and men aren’t meant to be women … people just don’t get it.
Nice comments, but she caps it off with:
You sound so bitter, angry and obsessive … I hope that you find your foreign bride soon and she brings you much joy and contentment.
Gee, I don’t feel bitter, angry and obsessive! LOL But then again, I only write to this blog when I’m drunk, so who knows what I’m really thinking!
The next comment came from Lynnie – a self-professed “Western-European Woman” whos is CLEARLY not America. I looked at her comment a few different ways and I’m not really sure to answer it, perhaps some of you might have a shot at it:
I realise that this website is meant as a release for your frustrations, and none of the things you wright should be taken seriously. However, I have a few questions.
1. Why don’t you ask these women if you can take a fotograph of them? For a man who claims to love Eastern European women, you don’t seem to give them the same respect you say that they give you. And don’t say that it’s a gender issue. Being manly is not the same thing as being creepy.
2. Did something happen to you in the USA to make you bitter? From browsing through your website, I can tell that you spend (spent?) a fair amount of time searching for women you don’t want on the internet. It’s a rather unlogical behaviour, and it gives me the impression that you are NOT happy with your life in Europe, because if you were, you would not think so intensely about things you don’t like. I don’t think about rapists when I’m in a good mood, you know what I mean?
3. Has it ever occured to you that the reason Western women in certain countries dress badly is because of the invasion of sexually disturbed immigrants from the Middle East and Africa? I used to dress beautifully and fell good about myself before I had to move to a cheaper area full of immigrants. After being pressed up against immigrant men’s erection and being threatened and called disgusting things from the age of twelve, I now only wear sweatpants from the men’ wear department and baggy full-cover shirts. One time I was out with my friends in pajamas, winter jacket, snow boots and the whole winter gear, and we were dragged into a mob of arab men and couldn’t get out until a bunch of Western men saw us and helped. So from that point of view, raging against women’s rights and feminism is virtually guaranteed to keep a man in solitude for a very long time. I know I wouldn’t want to live with a man who indulges in that sort of culture. I have also stopped wearing headscarves because of the muslim immigrants polluting our cultures. If you MUST wear a scarf to be classified as human, you kind of lose interest in it.
4. In Western Europe, it is a known fact about American women that many of them are traditional about relationships and want to settle down early. To us, you are considered the Western country with the highest density of traditional relationships, and given the fact that most of us other Westerners are also pretty traditional (save the question of housewives, which is not appealing to most of us), that means that you have an abundence of American women to marry. So why waste your time worrying about those who are not traditional? They are no threat to you.
And I am not an American – or even English speaking – woman. I work out and believe I have an adequate intellect and intelligence. So don’t brush me off by calling me a fat, jealous, stupid American woman.
I must say, for a woman who calls me just short of a pig, she does have a lot to say.
Dave, if he is in fact a man and not really “Dove” masquerading in a mustache and long pants, thinks that a 50/50 relationship is “what’s fair.” Geez, don’t tell that to an Eastern European Woman:
What a crock of crap! In a relationship it should be 50/50.Women aren’t children to be dominated by men
Who said anything about dominating women? If I don’t order for my Russian Girlfriend when we dine out, she looks down her nose at me like I’m defective. Why didn’t I “man up” and order for her? Dominating? She expects me to fill my role and she will fill hers. A FEMINIST thinks that if a man is confident and assertive that he “dominates” women. This is a vile form of feminism that brainwashes men (and women) that we must act as equals. That is a croc of crap.
You say that what I wrote is a croc of crap huh? Perhaps if you are a pussified Western Man. There is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship – especially in the West. I’d go for 100/100 wherein each “partner” put in a “full” effort – but that isn’t enough for most Los Angeles and New York women – they want their cake and to eat it too.
Is it no wonder that Western women sleep with Bad Boys and then date “nice guys.” Its because they are confused. Dominating women? How about just act like a Man Dave – geez. I really believe that American Men are as much feminist as American Women.
Susan doesn’t like my style:
Whilst I am aware that many American women – I am not one I hasten to add – are known for their spoilt reputation,I think posting pictures of fat women on here and real women in general is pretty low class.
I have no axe to grind as I am a western European woman in a relationship with an American man and I am not overweight or ugly.However,I have read some of the comments where you have posted pictures of women’s dating profiles and one of the ones which stuck out was one of a woman who was from New York where youy commented on where she said she was into wine implying she must be overweight or have a drink habit.I personally think comments like that are rather puerile and uncalled for.By all means you can make your point without trying to belittle someone.
Ok Susan, point taken. I’m crude and low-class. I’ll immediately raise the bar to make you happy. Especially because you are from the Island and we likes us some British Women (who else would say “whilst?”). Well, I guess she could be an Aussie…
Well, it can’t be said that I can’t take criticism. I can. I’m all for it. But I’ve yet to meet a Western Man in Ukraine or Russia who didn’t say something to the effect of, “God, I never knew it could be like this. I’m finished with American women.”
I went to Walmart yesterday and saw three women (two were together, one by herself) who were so fat that they had fat rolls hanging down to their knees. I should have taken their photos but Lynnie’s admonishment was so strong that I hesitated. And so, I went to Walmart People and found some “similar” thought not quite as fat photos to share. You’ve seen what Eastern Women look like, if you live in America, you have something to compare. Not that we don’t have good looking Women – on recent flights to Oregon and Iowa I saw a lot of beauties – but many were – well, feminist. And that just spoils the look. And then there are the cows, geez, how did America get so fat?
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