It wasn’t always that Seth was driven passionately to try finding a spouse overseas. Only a few years ago he had graduated and Young Seth became Dr. Young Seth. With only a few licensing examinations and the acquisition of a lucrative job in the area of his choice, Young Seth started to realize his potential as quality husband material.
In Western culture, the enterprising young man is told that he should make good grades, go to college, secure a stable job and somewhere a long the way a good woman will come along and snatch him up. While Young Seth was interested in finding “the One”, he considered it prudent to wait until he was more accomplished before aggressively pursuing that path. There were the usual number of minor heartbreaks and friendzones, but the vision of an idealized marriage was solidly engrained.
During this time Young Seth learned about “Game”, and more than most about international relationships, but he couldn’t have cared less until he gave a fair shot at a “normal relationship”. After all, he had carefully spent over a decade of his life trying to model himself into the ideal husband. Young Seth did not drink, smoke, or profane, listened carefully to the advice of his elders and had a pleasant, engaging personality. He knew that because of his careful stratagems and marketing to the right people that he would obtain an illustrious position with significant monetary compensation and political power. With no emotional baggage or financial debt, Young Seth looked forward to a future involving devotion to a loving family.
So it was, with a new career, new town and new outlook on life that Young Seth entered Western society as a productive member. It seemed to Young Seth at this point that the world was his oyster and all the Western women in it were pearls to be plucked when he saw one of sufficient quality. So too was this recognized by older individuals in the community who immediately saw the potential of this man. Dinner invitations were put forth and accepted, and who should happen to also be at those parties than the young ladies whom Seth had been acquainted with from afar via numerous pictures, newspaper clippings and verbal descriptions.
How odd it was, that those nubile women whose parents or grandparents had put so much effort into spotlighting seemed to take no interest in Young Seth. Even the more homely of the forced applicants showed no real interest outside of social niceties, having tuned their *ahem* “bitch shields to maximum”. One mother even confided to Seth that after he took his leave the young woman received a thorough chastising. No matter, Seth would try on his own.
And try he did, after all, if women did not find him attractive then apparently he was not attractive enough. It even went so far that one Valentines Day, Seth dressed up in a suit, bought 4 dozen roses and spent the day as he normally would, but gave out flowers to women. Not all the women were attractive or even remotely appropriate for Seth, but he was dedicated to improving his appreciation for the Western woman. Some women accepted the unwarranted gift graciously. Others were lacking tact, immediately stating that it would be a fine gift for them to give to their boyfriend. It struck him as out of place, however, that nearly every woman took the approach in the manner of, “Well finally, someone who sees me for the special person I am.” As if the whole world’s male population should be on bent knee, offering gifts and affirmation of value to them.
Only a few days later, Seth was reading a website regarding international relationships (a pastime he often indulged) when he read the following passage; “Mr. Local, an American guy with good social skills, has lived his whole life in [Western City, USA]. Because he only dates American women raised in [Western City], Mr. Local has no point of comparison…Mr. Local dates American women who have high expectations of him and call him a loser whenever he disappoints them…Mr.Local kicks himself for his lackluster dating life. He tries to improve his love life by improving himself, spending money on health supplements, gym memberships, fresh haircuts, clothes, so he always looks slick. He buys jewelry and fancy watches; he just financed a new Lexus to impress the ladies in [Western City]. And what reward does Mr. Local get for all his efforts? He gets crappy treatment by the sophisticated, self-centered ladies of [Western City].
That in bold was EXACTLY what Young Seth had been doing. Seth became excited…someone else knows his problem! Maybe now he would learn the secret ingredient to what Western women really wanted, and he would finally be having them falling over to get to him. He read on: [Mr. Global] knows he isn’t the problem. Ok, then what is the problem? Western women are the problem…
Suddenly, everything clicked. Everything made sense, from the droves of women absorbed in themselves, to the desperate appeals from the older/used up women, to the reasons for “Game” and, most importantly, the reason that women from foreign lands are so much more attractive! It had never occured to Young Seth that the amount of effort on the part of women was lacking. To be nearly be the literal definition of “husband material” wasn’t enough for the Western woman. What they were waiting for did not actually exist: Studly McSixpack, Lord of the Trust Funds, someday standing on their porch with his supercar in the driveway ready to wisk them away from their boring existence into a land where their every whim was catered to and all other Western women looked at her with admiration and desire to be her. The first thing that Enlightened Seth did was cut his hair, dressed the way he wanted (still professional) and lived for himself. He researched more into the nature of men, women and himself and became more involved in “the manosphere”.
On his next birthday, Seth resolved to spend the a year thinking about the possibility of pursuing a foriegn wife. During that year he made connections with other people who had similar interests or had already completed their journey. He scoured the internet for videos, forums and information about the process of developing yourself for the quest and why the quest was worthwhile. And at the end of the year, Seth deemed it good. He “came out” to his relatives, friends and coworkers. Some had negative reactions, but Seth was prepared. In this issue Seth goes forward now with willingness only to accept a spouse who had spent as much time and effort in consideration of their future spouse as he has.
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