It was early December, but not so early that a company Christmas party couldn’t be held at a management member’s farmhouse. It was late and most partygoers had left for their homes. A few of us, however, stayed well into soul’s midnight talking and making merry. At this point I had “come out” to several of my co-workers about my desire to pursue an overseas relationship, and one of them looked over her drink and asked me point blank.
“What kind of woman ARE you looking for?”
I was not shocked at the directness of the question but to the lack of answer that I had for it. I knew that “not Western” was the wrong answer, not only because it was politically incorrect but also because you do not describe things by what they are not, but by what they are. It had never occurred to me that I might want to give consideration to the qualities of a woman I would want to spend the rest of my life with. If I could not describe it, then how could I know when I have found it?
Last week I pontificated on the seldom-asked question “What Do You Want?” I purposely specified to be devoid of female aspirations so as to discuss the matter this week. Some men seeking an international relationship are so caught up in how bad Western women are that they seldom take time to consider what it is about an Eastern woman that makes her so attractive. If you can, describe a normal day that you would have if you had a loving, caring spouse. Let me take you on my journey to define the allure of the Eastern woman and we shall see if we can come to the same conclusions. I mentioned in my preface that there were many qualities I did not want my spouse to have, so I started there. Today’s Western woman can be notably generalized as:
- Physically Unattractive
- Demanding of a 50%/50% Relationship
- Self Absorbed
Obviously, since I didn’t want that, I should seek a woman who embodies the opposite. This leaves me looking for the following:
1. Physically Attractive Try to tell any feminist to her face that you’re looking for a woman who’s physically attractive if you want to get publicly shamed. In the Western woman’s fall from grace, she lost her ability to give a damn about how she looks. Simply trying to look better than the other doubl-X chromosomes around you sets you apart in Western society. Desiring only women who do that puts you in the “shallow” category for some reason. If some feminist libtard tries to pull this on me, I let them know that I have a friend who needs a date for a wedding, would they please accompany this guy?
Of course they don’t want to. If they wouldn’t want to be seen with someone unattractive, then why would they demand that I marry one? I hear that Eastern women have the idea of how everyone looks and dresses in America based on the Hollywood movies. Once they get over here, boy are they shocked!
I often respond to people who tell me that there are gobs of good girls right here in my home country, “Why haven’t they made themselves attractive to me?” Often they are suggesting fatties or sweatpant queens and quickly take offense that I should be so naive to suggest that looks matter. Then I gently try to remind them that Love-At-First-Sight is not derived from the quality of one’s personality. If the girl isn’t even trying to look attractive, how can I assume she will, in the context of a relationship, meet me halfway? This brings me to my second point.
2. Demands a 100%/100% Relationship Nothing slips a laxative in my Viagra like the idealism of a 50/50 relationship. We all know what that means in the context of the legal system in western society. It means that half is hers and the other half is “ours” (also hers). You’d better not forget it bucko, because if she ever decides she’s uuuunnnhhhaaaaaappppyyyy then you get to pay for her divorce fee and possibly a lifetime of wage-slavery to support her “accustomed standard of living” (your’s be damned) as well as “child support” which overwhelmingly goes to the woman, even if the woman doesn’t have custody of the child.
No! I demand 100% woman to go with my 100% man. We don’t strictly need each other to survive, I want our relationship to feed into a positive energy loop that results in the ultimate [1 + 1 = 3] scenario. I want to be inspired by her feminine energy, not live under its shadow in fear of a browbeating by it. Not only do I demand 100% from my woman, but I want her to demand 100% from me as a man.
3. Outwardly Engaged Too many women in Western culture could not tell you anything about the world that was not spoonfed or shoved into their brains. While I don’t go seeking females to discuss theological / political / economic / cultural matters with its refreshing to actually find one (or anyone, really) who is beyond what I refer to as the “First Phase Logic.” Any woman can tell me what political party they support, but few can elaborate on why the support that party or even describe basic differences between parties.
Politics isn’t really that important, but I would expect a woman to have an interest in literature. Try finding a woman who has read a book in the last year (Twilight, 50 Shades and Eat/Pray/Love don’t count), much less identify a book written by any of the more famous authors (easy one: A book by Mark Twain?) If you can even find one who understands the meaning of the word “genre” it is nearly impossible to get one to divulge their favorite and describe common plots involved. Needless to say there is much to be desired from the majority of Western women.
All that could be overlooked if there was in inkling of interest outside of the smartphone alerting you to your googol of Facebook likes on that picture of your lunch you posted. On the other hand, if a foreign woman is interested in you then you at LEAST know that she’s interested in other cultures, learning another language, and values you as a source of fulfillment.*
Who you want your relationship to be with is up to you. Think carefully about what kind of person you want to be with for the rest of your life. If you’ve made mistakes in the past, learn from them, but be aware that many Western women would like to give you nothing less than a very raw deal if you let them. Head overseas, meet other women and consider all of the options before selecting one.
*Use the big head, make sure she’s after you for your soul, not your money or international passport.
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