… the pot calling the kettle black…
I received this letter from George a few weeks back and I thought I’d post it as he come to many of the same conclusions that I have regarding Western women. I’ll let his letter speak for itself:
I just wanted to write to say a warm hearted “Thank you” for the honesty and candor you have when talking about your own experiences in dating Western women. I’m sure you have heard this before, but your stuggles is something I can relate to, and it’s good to know I’m not the only person out there, who feels incompetent in something I feel should be so fundamental, as to be able to find a partner.
I am currently 30 years of age, and have had my fair share of datelessness and horror stories with regards to Western women. I was lucky in the sense that when I started my university studies, I spent a good chunk of the time in a relationship with a girl most men would be considered very attractive. When we broke up, I thought maybe I’d be single for no more than a year before I found someone else, but how wrong I was! Afterwards I spent the next 4 years basically dateless and not being able to figure out the conundrum of Western women. I thought to myself that I did everything right, I graduated from university, got a good job with a decent income, bought my own apartment and got really involved in the sport of Olympic weight-lifting (it became obvious to the point where random people I met, and work colleagues, would ask me for work-out tips.) So I thought I ticked all the boxes in what constituted a decent, potential partner. Despite this though, things remained lackluster.
Like most guys in my situation I did a google search on how to pick up women, and discovered the PUA (pick up artist) community and got heavily involved in that for the next couple of years. My dating and sex life went from being non-existent to mediocre. However though, I noticed that if a male doesn’t fit the narrow conventional paradigm of what constitutes an “attractive male”, you were destined to datelessness and sexlessness. Guys who time and time again I noticed that fitted this description, would end up dating most of the girls I found attractive, and I realised from then on looks takes precedence over game, and the PUA communtiy was largely a fraud preying on decent men yearning for affection.
That was when I discovered websites like yours and Winston Wu’s, which informed guys like myself that 80% of the women in the West have been programmed to like the top 20% of males. If you’re not in that top 20%, then you’re screwed. Reading both of your stories really opened my eyes, and made me realise the checklist mentality of many Western women, where they fail to apply their own standards against themselves was just down right hyporcitical. Not to mention the plethora of other things like obesity, lack of affection and blatant double standards etc made Western women particularly undesirable.
What I dislike about Western women is their hyper-focus on indviduality and their careers, to the point where they neglect the idea of having a family. I also feel many of them want something beyond what they can command. Women from Eastern Europe however, are completely different. I am still amazed to this day, at how family orientated these women are, and their total committment to their spouse. Sure they might have careers and go on to further studies, but that always takes second place to the prospect of finding a good man and starting a family. What can I say, feminism has really messed with my head.
I have always noticed that women outside of the West, especially from Europe, tended to have healthier looking physique and were much more friendly and feminine when engaging with men. The thought of dating someone from overseas never occured to me though, as I thought I just had to date someone from my own country by default.
I could write a lot more (and I’m tempted too) but I’ll just cut this long story short by saying that upon further research into international dating for a few months, I discovered with the help of websites like yours and Wu’s, that international dating is a viable option.
I joined Elena Model’s sometime ago, and have been corresponding with a couple of women. It’s still early stages, but the communication between us has been great, and I’m hoping that if things continue this well, I’ll hopefully be travelling overseas sometime soon to see if there is any chemistry between us (I’m careful not to rush things.)
Thanks for sharing your story and all the advice about what to avoid whilst overseas. Your advice in particular about avoiding tour guides and the fradulent dates they set up has been very helpful. I’m paying off a mortgage so spending 500 dollars per fraudulent date doesn’t sound like a worhtwhile investment.
I sincerely wish you the best of luck with your current partner and that you have the family life you so obviously deserve.
P.S. Those photos you posted of guys with no game going out on dates with local Ukrainian women not only cracked me up, but was extremely educational. Keep up the good work Scott! Best wishes once again.
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