Thanks Gustavo for forwarding this link:
Gentlemen, meet Natalia:
Natalia is a pretty girl, about 25 years old, looking for a Man up to age 33 to marry.
I was just browsing through the many many files of eHarmony profiles I saved before I dumped that service and I see so many 33 year old American women who answer the questions “Do you want children” as “maybe.” How are you 33 years old and you haven’t figured out if you want a family or not?
All you have to do is go around and browse some of the SPERM DONOR WANTED ads and you’ll see so many desperate (single) 42 year old women scrambling to shed their feminist ideology at the last moment.
What is Natalia looking for? In her own words:
I love life and I love living active life and explore. I love to try new activities, to learn about new places, people and cultures. I enjoy traveling, goIng to cultural events and socializing with quality people. I am independent but far from being a feminist. The main value for me is my family.
Think about that for a minute, her main goal in life is to have a family. How refreshing. She’s not trying to save starving orphans in Africa, she’s not trying to raise awareness for Women’s issues in Afghanistan, she’s not trying shame people into not eating meat – in other words, instead of trying to save the planet, she is interested in taking care of HER (future) family.
What do you want in a Woman? Do you want a woman who with whom you’re going to have to compete with starving children in the third world? My Wife’s #1 goal is to make sure I’m fed a good dinner and that I feel loved. Every time I read to her some of the comments (yes, you Lilly) that are on this blog from young feminist women, my Wife laughs and says, “Well Dear, you can’t help everyone.”
You live once. You have one shot at happiness in this world. Do you want to be with a woman who considers you an accessory in her life or do you want a Wife who reveres you and makes you her number one priority?
What about children. The majority of American women don’t even want children. So, if you are interested in family, you will be expected to bring home a paycheck and to also raise the kids. Where is the equity in that? If you want a Wife, who will make you AND YOUR CHILDREN her #1 priority, you need to look outside of America – Australia – England -Sweden – Germany. It is interesting that when I look at where the visitors to this website come from I see that the majority are from countries with the highest levels of feminist sentiment. That says something. There is a deep sense of dissatisfaction among Men in feminist countries and they’re looking for an alternative.
While I was writing this article, my Wife came by and asked what I was doing. I told her the idea of this article: Natalia’s priority is finding a HUSBAND and taking care of her family. Alana said, “Surely American women want the same thing, no?” I whipped out my old eHarmony file and started opening profiles (I saved a few hundred before I ditched my subscription a few years back knowing that they would make great fodder for future articles).
I opened the EH file and she said, “What about that girl?” I clicked on the first photos:
Her title under her photo: “Trees are my friends.”
Photo title” I see dead people.”
What does she mean she sees dead people?” I explained the 6th Sense movie reference and she gave me an odd look? “Trees are her friends? What is wrong with that girl? What kind of Man is she trying to attract?”
I smiled and said, “Exactly.”
I explained that of the hundreds of eHarmony profiles I looked at, NOT ONCE did I ever see a woman write that her first (or even second or third) priority was a husband and/or a family.
Alana looked skeptical so I pressed on.
I opened the next profile and we read that Tara wants to make a life with someone and her number one priority is their happiness.
Alana looked at me with a sideways look. “She seems to be a normal Woman.” I told her to hold on and we scrolled down the the profile.
Occupation: Registered nurse
Height: 5′ 5″
Wants kids: Maybe
“Oh,” my Wife exclaimed, “That seems odd.” And indeed it does. If you poll 100 Russian Women who have just finished university (say 22 or 23 years old) and ask the if they want children you’ll get a very different answer. I asked my Wife this same question and she answered, “Not if they want chldren, but how many they will want.” She estimated that 85% or more of the Russian Women would want children (plural) and 95% or more would want at least one child.
The problem in Russia is economic and she said that if the average Russian college graduate (or non college grad) was able to marry a Man of means and she could choose between 0, 1, 2 or more children, the vast majority would have 2 or more and almost all would have at least one.
Compare to my EH membership. I said, “Only show me women who want children.” 75% of the women indicated “maybe” and 25% said “yes, I want kids.” Had I said, show me “yes, maybe or no” to the children question, perhaps I would have had 90% who didn’t want children. What has happened to American women?
We went on and read another profile: this woman is 33 and wants kids. Nowhere in her profile does she offer anything to her prospective new mate nor does she include the idea of a family, companionship nor children in her “must haves.” She lists the ONE most important thing in her life as:
Travelling (she’s more interested in vacation than cooking you dinner)
Food (eating it, not cooking it – interestingly, she does not include her photo; read: fat)
Interior design (WTF does that have to do with finding a Man?)
Keeping fit/sport (really, why no photo then?)
Socializing (no kidding, an American woman who likes to talk?)
Meeting new people (she’ll never be content to settle down in a family life)
and Learning new things (always be weary of any woman who 1. practices Yoga, 2. is into “self development” or 3. is into “psychology” – it means she’s nuts herself)
We go on to look at the next profile: A woman who moved to the wilderness. She is most proud that she bought her own farm and loves her life with her cats and dogs (child surrogates). She is interested in a Man who will drop his life and move to her house.
Wants kids? No.
Next profile: Nicole from New York (strike 1 against any woman from NY or LA)
The ONE thing she is most passionate about:
Movies (this is supposed to be one thing she is most passionate about, as all the Western women do, she gives a list and no where will you ever see family, husband and/or children)
Good conservative [sic] (WTF is that? this is your resume for love, perhaps you could proof read? If she can’t get this right, how is dinner going to turn out? Will you trust her to get your kid to school on time?)
Mexican restaurants (danger, think tortilla ass)
Riding bikes (yet no photo)
Swimming (again, no photo)
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Stretching (I’d like to see what she’s stretching)
Reading (anti-Man propaganda & articles no doubt)
Psychology (yikes, she’s nuts! – that’s a danger sign, see above)
In her “how I spend my leisure time,” she writes:
“… and drinking Margaritas at Mexican restaurants.”
Oh yes, be sure to get the STD check before first date and strap a board to your ass so you don’t fall in…
Wants kids: Maybe
My Wife spotted a blonde Woman, “What about her?” I sensed that this was becoming a sport, try to prove husband wrong ;-)
I pulled up Somers from Nashville, Tennessee.
She looks pretty, aged 29, 5′ 8″, so she’s tall. Looks good so far.
What she’s most passionate about? She writes, “I am most passionate about making the people in my life feel loved and happy.”
“Ah, ha!” Alana said, as though she finally found a “normal” American woman.
We scrolled down:
She describes herself, “… I tend to be very abstract in my thinking.” In other words, she’s a little nuts and she’s not afraid to admit it. I can predict a life with this woman and it doesn’t necessarily include a happy husband.
And then we read:
Wants kids: Maybe
My Wife said to me, “Well, I didn’t write that I wanted a husband and kids in my Elena’s Model’s ad. I said, “Really?” and started filing through my files. “You saved it?!” she sounded half surprised and half pleased that I saved it. I pulled up an Adobe .pdf and we read about her wants and desires in her description. And then in the “what are you looking for,” and we read what my Wife had written a few years ago:
“I’m looking for my special Man for me and it doesn’t matter where he lives.”
I asked her, when you wrote that, did it mean you were willing to leave your friends and family to find love and a family of your own? and she replied, “Yes.” And then I asked her, have you seen any woman here who has offered to give up anything at all to find a Man and/or a family?” She shook her head no and said, “I see.” I could see that she was really thinking about it and the attitudes of the American women seemed so foreign to her. Just as the American women read this website in horror as we travel in America and Alana meets (and sees) American women, she is put off and surprised at their attitudes and desires.
While I continued to finish this article, she went to make us some lunch (some lovely sausages I bought at the Carneceria yesterday with some rolls & a salad).