Why Are So Many Professional Millennial Women Unable To Find Dateable Men?

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What a modern American Millennial woman thinks she looks like:

Victoria

(by the way, the Woman above is, of course, Russian!)

What she really looks like:

I often write about the differences between Eastern European Women and American (western) women and – knowing the diffeerence – I’m astounded that any man at all would date an American woman. When I saw this article, I had to chuckle and wondered why shouldn’t it be “Why are any Professional Millenial Women able to find any Men at all?”

When you read the article, if you pay attention to it, you’ll feel a certain level of arrogance that runs throughout this woman’s writing. She is professional, accomplished and (according to her) she is beautiful. If you’ve read this blog long enough you know that most American (western) women have a serious disconnect as to what beautiful is. They think that if they have a vagina they are beautiful. But when compared to a Russian Woman, they pale (looks wise) in comparison. Most American Men don’t know the difference either.

The article will be in bold so that it will be easier to dissect my writing from those of the Forbes article.

My Millennial-aged girl friends and I never doubted that we would accomplish all of our life goals. Everything, thus far, has pretty much gone according to our plans. We were accepted into the right college, landed the dream job, and developed a network of amazing friends. Our apartments are beautifully decorated and we have closets full of stylish clothing. Romance hasn’t been entirely sidelined, but we don’t waste our time trying to cultivate a relationship unless someone is really amazing.

She puts her priorities as, 1. The “right” University, 2. Getting a “dream job,” 3. Developing an “amazing network of friends,” 4. A “beautifully decorated” apartment, 5. and a closet of “stylish clothing.” The woman then goes on to bemoan that she has no romance in her life?

Imagine now, if we substitute Motherhood into this discussion. Would it be strange for us to hear a modern woman say, “You know, my priorities have always been my education, my work, my network of friends, decorating my apartment and my stylish clothing. After all of that, my kids are my #1 priority. So, you can imagine my surprise that my 15 year old son is on drugs and dropped out of school and my 17 year old daughter is pregnant to her pimp-boyfriend. I really can’t understand where I went wrong!

Think about it Men, If you are getting married, you’ll be #7 on that list considering that the kids are 6th place behind all of this crap.

But now, a growing number of Millennial women are beginning to fret over the unanticipated consequences of prioritizing our careers before love. And I only need to look at my group of friends to see this reality. Again and again, year after year, my successful, gorgeous, and amazing friends remain kiss-less on New Year’s Eve. And on Valentine’s Day. And on the 4th of July. The only dateable men we encounter are either attached, gay, or otherwise involved in “it’s complicated” situations. We are coming to the realization that we were unwittingly playing a game of musical chairs — while everyone was pairing up, those focused on our careers are left standing alone.

What is so “unanticipated?” If a career is more important than husband and home, why should you be surprised when you don’t have the latter?

And we can’t figure out what is happening.

I can.

Millennial Woman 01

“I don’t think the issue is that men used to be great and now they’re not,” says Jezebel’s Katie J.M. Baker. “Women used to feel more pressure to get married and have kids earlier, and prioritize those goals above the others.” Add to that women’s ability now to be self-sufficient financially and supported socially by so many friends in the same boat, it shouldn’t be that surprising so many Millennial women are single. Except to us singletons, it isn’t supposed to be this way.

What it is, is that women used to be great and now they aren’t!

When it comes to romance, Millennial women are typically described using several broad strokes that don’t reflect nuance or contradictions. We are the hook-up generation. We are afraid of commitment. We are ball-busters or fairy-tale dreamers. Each cliché may have elements of truth, but the fuller story is a result of several influencing and interconnected factors.

“We are the hook-up” generation. This means, we sleep with every guy with a tattoo and then when we turn 37, we suddenly want to marry the guy with the IT degree, a handsome paycheck and maybe not such a sporty body. In other words, the modern woman wants all and can’t understand why she can’t have everything. There is a word for this: immaturity.

For one, it’s not as if we are holding out for Jake Gyllenhaal, but we do have certain non-negotiable expectations for potential mates that include college degrees and white-collar jobs. Life has always gone according to our plans, so why wouldn’t we land a man with these (reasonable) requirements?

For a list of “reasonable” requirements, please see The List.

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This unwillingness to settle for less than we think we deserve is joined by a lax attitude towards searching for potential mates. We’re busy dominating the world. We don’t have time to hang out at bars. While some of us explore online dating or take a more proactive approach, the majority of Millennial women have long assumed we would meet Prince Charming via friends, or through their own social circles. “Why should we waste our precious time and energy unless we meet someone we really connect with and care about?” asks Baker. “I think it’s great that Millennial women are picky and don’t feel as much pressure to be in monogamous relationships as did previous generations. I do think all Millennials, not just women, are used to the idea of being able to ‘curate’ experiences — that’s why so many people are into online dating, because you can pick and choose character traits — and that makes people wary about settling down, especially when, in a city like New York, there are so many options.”

“Especially in a ctiy like New York where there are ‘so many options.'” This is the attitude. Why “settle” when I can always trade up later. This attitude of marriage as a transitional stage in life, rather than a lifelong commitment is a huge problem and one of the reasons for today’s such high divorce rates. Most American women don’t see marriage as a permanent institution but rather something more like a job that you can quit if you find a better job.

Unfortunately these assumptions bump up against the growing inequality between the two genders. Millennial women have taken it for granted that they will pair up with equal partners. But increasingly, there aren’t enough of these men to go around. Women now outnumber men on college campuses, and single, childless women out earn their male counterparts. In fact, as author Liza Mundy writes in her book, The Richer Sex, Millennial women are increasingly finding two options when it comes to romance: marry down or don’t marry. “There needs to be a cognitive behavior change in what are [considered] important traits,” says Mundy. “I talk to so many women who are obsessed with finding men on their level. They want someone as ambitious, engaged, and high-achieving as they are. They maybe need to rethink that to seek a partner who is supportive, rather than competitive.”

And so, if a Man will only date a thin woman, he’s a jerk. If he won’t date a woman with kids, he’s a jerk. But here, in a national magazine, this woman has laid out that it is perfectly acceptable for a woman to disqualify a Man who isn’t good looking enough, doesn’t make enough money, doesn’t have the “right” job, isn’t college educated and even if he doesn’t have “enough culture” for her tastes.

Or, accomplished women hold firm in searching for impressive men to help them feel they are getting anything out of the partnership. “They have this list of qualities (smart, has a job, knows something about culture or the world, etc) that seem pretty reasonable, but so few men meet the requirements,” says Melanie Shreffler, a marketing consultant on Millennial culture. “Going back centuries, it was just a contract between two parties. Love and even friendship or liking each other weren’t important. If you were lucky, they developed over time. But now, we think we can find a guy who will be our best friend, our other half, who we will love before we marry. Finding that in a guy that we also find attractive makes the probability of finding a “good match” even less.”

“Accomplished women hold firm in searching for impressive men to help them feel they are getting anything out of the partnership.” Partnership? Is that what a marriage is, a business institution? It is no wonder these women have trouble finding love. It is no wonder that they can’t find a good Man.

Plus, many Millennial women are in the uncertain “grey” age range where we aren’t sure if we need to start stressing out over our single status and lower our standards. Or whether we simply need to remain patient that the right man will come along.

The stress compounds as the ovaries collapse.

There is also an odd paradox in that Millennial women can be outright ambitious in their professional lives, but the same approach towards dating conveys desperation. “[Marriage] is a worthy goal,” say Mundy. “It’s strange that it’s stigmatized. When women work as explicitly hard to find romance and they do for their careers, they are seen as man-hungry. It’s a shame since studies show that marriage makes one healthier and happier. There’s no shame in wanting a great life.”

“Marriage is a worthy goal.” Laughing my ass off.

At the very least, Millennial women can always turn to those in relationships for helpful dating solutions. “If your utmost priority is to find a mate, maybe you should think about the qualities that are most important to you and keep that in mind when writing people off,” says Baker. “But I don’t want that to come off as me encouraging women to ‘settle’ — because I’d personally rather be single than in a relationship with someone who isn’t worth it.”

Imagine ANY Man on national television telling Men, “There are a lot of hot women out there. If you can’t get a Playboy model, then perhaps you should consider a less attractive or heavier woman; but I don’t want to come off as encouraging men to ‘settle’ because I’d rather be single than in a relationship with someone who isn’t worth it.”

And herein lies a HUGE problem: the inflated collective egos of American women. They think that almost no man is “worth it” to their standards.

And there’s always the popular suggestion to move to another state with a more favorable male-female ratio. It worked for my sister who found her boyfriend in Alaska.

And there’s always the popular suggestion to look in another country with a more favorable feminine-female ratio. It worked for my buddy who found his wife in Russia.

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94 thoughts on “Why Are So Many Professional Millennial Women Unable To Find Dateable Men?

  1. Bravo, Scott!! Another brilliant article with on-the-nail comments. It’d be something, wouldn’t it, if your blog turned the Titanic around? Your blog has already attracted supporting comments from Aquarius, who is not afraid to stand with us, and actually tell the truth against the parody of feminists. If more minds, more intellect and more collective souls, could rise in one voice against the femi-nazi’s, maybe, just maybe, our families in the West could be saved.

  2. Amen!!! Scott, this is great. This article, is just stating, what I have been saying for years about the attitudes of US (Western) women.

    There is no more “Family” in their thinking anymore.. it is, me me me me me, this has corrupted the following generations and I really see it too hard of road to come back from.

    My Ukrainian fiancee (soon to be wife – if everything continues as planned) when talking with me, always makes family #1. Her thoughts are only, that of the well being of her family. I am not even her husband yet, but my name is in that list already, no exceptions and God help me, if I say anything to sway that thinking..

    This article, just shows were our society took a wrong turn. Just reading the words, you can tell this is unhappy woman and will be for life, because she did not get what “she wanted”. She thinks, she is having to settle for.. HS look at most US men.. So, glad my eyes were opened up..

    Scott great job again.

    Bryan

    • Great job Bryan! I just brought my Ukrainian fiance over and we are now married. Ive met a few other guys with Ukrainian wives. It took 5 years of research,3 trips to Ukraine and one to Russia to finally be successful. There are issues that arise with communications and understandings from cultural differences and so on, but hang in there, it’s worth it. They are still far better than any American woman hands down.

  3. The article demonstrates how deluded American women are. One CAN have a career and a family and successfully juggle both. The only thing they need to remember is the spouse and children should come first. Always. Then our parents and siblings. They should take priority over work, friends, etc.

    There’re increasing numbers of blogs trying to teach American women to be feminine but these tend to contain vague advice such as ‘focus on yourself’, ‘do feminine things’, ‘be fluid like water’, ‘harness your feminine goddess’, etc. Hardly helpful. Then they ask readers to sign up for courses and talks about how to be more feminine. Yet, men are still unhappy and still find American women more masculine, so one has to wonder how effective these courses are and whether the lecturers/speakers themselves are able to grasp the very essence of femininity.

  4. These types of articles from Anglosphere women tended to annoy me in the past, especially how they try to portray Western men as inferior citizens unfit to breathe the same air as these ‘amazing’ women, but now I just laugh. I actually feel some pity for them. Discovering women from non-Western cultures certainly helped me see the truth. ;)

    I would bet one of my kidneys that these women are not nearly as attractive as they believe they are. People who have to remind the world how ‘amazing’ they are tend to be the most insecure.

    They’re also not as smart as they think they are if they cannot understand the simple principle that putting men and family last will more likely lead to a lifetime of spinsterhood. Not exactly rocket science is it?

  5. See what my potential dating (and future wife) pool in the US is composed of??? This 30 something man caught on quick about 8 years ago to the con…through observation…and it’s now starting to make more and more sense. These days…I have pretty much turned into an extremist concerning this topic. I have flat out told my parents, friends, and close acquaintances that I will NEVER marry (or produce children with) an American or western woman!

    • I’m the same, at first, the whole family thought I was nuts. Now that they’ve met Alana (and her family), they think I’m crazy like a Fox!

      • My parents have even come to an understanding that I am pretty serious when I state the above. Each even seems more partial to one of my two preferences, Latina and Slavic, as a potential daughter in law and mother of their future grandchildren. My dad seems to be more partial to the South American girls, while my mom seems more partial to the Eastern European girls.

  6. Impossible not to laugh reading this.

    No matter what we do, no matter how much of a Mister Perfect we become, we will never be enough for a fat bas-mouthed trash who thinks herself superior not being born without a dick.

    Awesome text as always! Thanks Scott.

  7. Just the fact that this article appeared in Forbes and not Cosmo or Woman’s Day speaks volumes. Every time these women open their mouths, they are a shining example of what is wrong with them. They just don’t get it. Hopefully, being unable to reproduce will thin their ranks somewhat!

    Great job Scott. Your comments were spot on. By the way, I now have a Belarusian girlfriend. Not sure if I would have her without this site.
    Thanks Buddy!

    • Thanks Rodney!
      These two phrases are hilarious!
      — —
      “One great barometer of how much a man respects women is whether he believes they have an obligation to look aesthetically pleasing to him.”

      “The ideal of smooth legs was about pleasing men, not pleasing myself (though some women have told me they shave to please themselves, and they should be able to make that choice without judgment as well).”
      — —
      So a man should not have any source of income or wealth to take care of himself/potential family, never shave or trim his beard, dress like a slob, nor exercise to build a better body. A man should just be angry that women and society would expect this of him?
      This woman is in la la land. If these type of western women do not care enough to make themselves attractive, then they should not care when western men look elsewhere.

  8. A prime example of what is wrong with women in western society, told by none other then Scott.

    I have to say you were very on point and you hit the nail right on the head. Women no longer think of marriage or even a relationship as a commitment, but a phase.

    I have a friend whom fits this description very well. She was been with numerous men already for extended periods of time, and of course she has never found the one. She holds herself to such a high standard that most men are “beneath her” ridiculous.

  9. Hey guys!
    What do you think?
    I was reading another blog that brought up some interesting points about the professional office environment and I immediately thought of this blog post — the title is perfect.
    The office in the western world is HR PC Hell.
    The white collar environment in the west socially castrates men and while it injects women with social anabolic steroids. In other words the environment kills natural masculinity and femininity. I am sure this would psychologically influence each sex outside the office — the dating environment.
    What do you guys think?

    • Hey Seeker,

      Since you brought up the topic on the office environment, I thought I’d share some thoughts. I just started working in one a couple of weeks ago for a huge Global corporation. This will be my first experience working in one since every job that I’ve held before this was “blue collar” in nature.

      As far as “HR PC Hell,” I don’t think it’s that extreme in my office. Maybe I’m the office rebel that just doesn’t give a shit. I don’t know, but the group on my floor that I work around are all from different parts of India. Very friendly and laid back people with thick accents and names that are hard to pronounce sometimes. It’s funny when I use American expressions when chatting with them, and the meanings go way over their heads sometimes. I have to explain it, but they understand after.

      “The white collar environment in the west socially castrates men and while it injects women with social anabolic steroids.”

      Maybe on some levels it does, but for me, the only “castrating” it does is boring the living hell out of me. Things are very quiet throughout most of the day because everyone has to do their work. I do see some of these annoying emails come in every now and then to my inbox stating things like “elevating women” in some promotional BS. I couldn’t care less.

      “In other words the environment kills natural masculinity and femininity.”

      The only thing it’s killing in me right now is my dopamine levels in my brain, lol. As far as what it does for dating, I have no idea. I haven’t dated in years.

    • Hey Joel,
      EXCELLENT idea. Stay clear AWAY from American women. Dont even date them. I learned the hard way like most of us. About 5 years ago I became extremely interested in the EE Woman idea. I spent thousands of hours online learning about the culture and learning to speak Russian. Then I took a vacation and went to Ukraine for 3 months. AWESOME,mind blowing and the trip of a lifetime! I then went to Russia for 2 months. I met and dated many ladies, all very wonderful,but just not the right match for various reasons. Then I began talking online to a Ukrainian lady and went to visit her. Great match and we decided to get a fiance visa. I went back when the visa was ready we came back the the states and got married in May. It’s been worth every penny and experiences like no other. I HIGHLY encourage American guys to do the same. Treat them good,cherish them,appreciate them and care for them and they’ll be loyal to you to the core.

          • You’re a success story. There are a LOT of Men who want to copy what you did. They want to be YOU.

            If you could, email me your story, how you got started (your motivation), how many trips you made over, how it worked out, the pitfalls, your advice, etc. About a page – page & 1/2 on a word doc. I’m sure there will be many who will enjoy reading YOUR story.

          • @Keith

            Dude, you made a huge mistake– you brought her back here. You might as well have married a western woman as she’ll soon morph into one.

            Looking abroad for a wife works is if you move to their country, as the foreign country’s culture is what instills and maintains their appealing feminine characteristics.

          • wrong, wrong, wrong

            If you marry a western woman in a Russian Woman’s body, you have this problem. You marry a traditional Russian Woman and she will want to know what’s wrong with you, “Why are you such a feminist? What will my Mom and Grandma think?”

            My Wife is conspiring to send our kid to parochial school – we don’t have a TV any more, my kid has NEVER seen a TV turned on.

      • Hey Keith, very nice. Congratulations on finding your Ukrainian lady and getting married. Yeah, I would also like to read more details on your success story of going to Russia and Ukraine. I could only imagine what it is like to be over there. We need to see more about stories like yours to encourage other American men to do what you did. I pretty much don’t bother with American women anymore. They just aren’t worth the aggravation.

        • Hello Joel,
          yes, they are very aggravating. So basicly at one point I decided I’m going Ukrainian and read anything and everything I could find about the country,culture,women and language. I learned that the Ukrainian people will have great respect for you,if you have a good understanding of their culture and can speak a little Russian. Learn some cultural facts and other little tid bits about them such as funny superstitions they have or catchy proverbs and your lady will find that very attractive. Show that you have a deep interest in her country,culture and language and not just her. That will really go along way with her. There are two ways to go about this. One is to go there and stay at least two or three months,meet people and make friends. Once your friends find out your single they will suggest girls for you to meet. It will be their idea actually,they love doing this. The other way is meeting someone on a web site and going to meet her. Ive done both of these ways. A problem that has been created by all the Russian and Ukrainian dating sites for foreign men is scammers. Stay away from Anastasia date. The best luck I had was with Ukraine date and Elena’s models. One thing the girls are complaining about now is guys who act all serious and start communication and never go to meet her. They are tired of wasting time on many hours of skyping and emails for nothing. Be prepared to go meet her with in a reasonable amount of time. Just like in dating here, make sure it appears you are compatible and have the same goals and similar interests. Learn as many details as possible. If you bring her here and she finds out you live on a farm or in a cabin in the mountains, she may have assumed you live in an apartment or house in a big city like New York and will be VERY upset. Be open and informative about where you live and your lifestyle. They tend to assume that we all live in the city center like they do. My wife assumed all of America was pretty much like New York city even though I made abundantly clear with explanations and photos,that I lived in a rural area. She just couldn’t understand exactly and was in shock when we came here.

          • Great advice Keith, and I’m agree with you with lot of points about ukrainian women.

            About me, it’s the 7th time I have gone in Ukraine in just 3 years because I know friends who are doing the same activity as me, which is a social dance. And this time I was in Kharkiv (after have been in Crimea it was 3 years ago, then Kiev many times, Lviv, Odessa,…) and have already had many dates with women. And this time, I think I have found the one in Kharkiv, we have spent all the the week together, and she is so beautiful in her appearance and inside, and she is really serious about finding someone special who will be her man and with whom she wanted to found a strong family, like a strong team. So we will see in the future, but we know that we are attracted each other and we can’t wait to meet again each other.

  10. Hi Joel,

    Good substance, buddy. Use that corporate job to save up some money for a trip to EE. I guarandamtee you, you’re natural masculinity (in other words, your natural predator instinct) will return. You’ll become a dating fool. Then, you’ll be like the rest of us here who have our girl….blithering away how great it was to go, to be there, you’d live there if you could, etc. You’ll make up for your no dating years in no time.

    Seekers comments are to the point, practically surgical strikes. You’ve been so affected by feminism, you don’t even bother dating anymore. Nothing wrong with that. You’re just saving yourself for ladies that will melt you in beauty, education and femininity.

    • Thanks, Rodney. That is the idea with this job. I already have plenty saved for a trip. The only thing that sucks about it is getting the free time to get over to EE. I really want to go, but saving up enough vacation leave to get a good trip over there would take 2-4 years. Yes, it is that slow. That is why I have started a blog on the side in the hopes I can grow it enough to earn enough income to where I can live off it and travel when I want.

      As far as dating the ladies from that part of the world, I have had a brief experience with a really nice woman from a place that is just outside of Kazan, Russia. She was visiting D.C. on a tourist visa, and I drove from my city to go meet with her. Dude, let me tell you. She had the beauty, education and femininity as you described without even trying. I mean, it was so easy for me to take the role of the man in that situation when I saw her. She was an absolute sweetheart. The polar opposite of almost every American woman that I have dealt with in my life. Opening doors for her, listening to her stories, respecting her, pulling out chairs. That was all easy for me, and she responded like it was natural with no hesitation. I’m telling you that if the average EE lady is like her, then I won’t ever consider any western woman for anything more than a business chat. Unfortunately, she has to go back to Russia soon, so our locations/situations are not conducive to having a relationship.

      Yeah, I don’t bother dating anymore because of our local women’s flaky behavior. Lol, how did you read my mind? If that is because of their feminism, then they can keep it. I want nothing to do with any woman who wants to jump from one guy to the next thinking she’ll have the option to do so her entire life. The last major involvement I had with a woman was maybe 8 or 9 years ago. That is all just history now. Every woman since then has been a flake. I’m done with them.

  11. I had already commented on your blog (which I genuinely like) a while ago. I am a French woman, fluent in Russian, spent two years there. Generally speaking, most of your articles are spot on. So I hope you won’t see my comment as a criticism and take it amiss.

    I find it a bit unfair to accuse western women of being career oriented.
    It takes a lot of time to find a decent job let alone an ideal job. I am by no mean a feminist. I don’t sleep with random “Alpha” guys (or with any random guys for that matter). If I found a husband who asked me to drop my job, I would. But I don’t see that happening.

    You seem to believe that any Western woman is flooded with marriage propositions from men who dream to cater for her financially and materially but turn them all down until they’re 35-ish and panicked. Well, a lot of women didn’t have that option to begin with, and not because something was wrong with them or because they preferred to sleep around.

    First of all, men postpone marriage as well and are reluctant to commit in their younger years -because of their career goals, or because they want to have fun. Secondly, it seems to me that most men do expect a woman to be financially independent -i.e to have a decent job. Most of them do not yearn to cater for a woman financially and materially and expect her to bring something to the table in terms of earning potential.

    I am by no means a feminist. I take care of myself, I can cook and I don’t sleep with random Alpha guys, or any random guys for that matter. Knowing that I might not be able to find a husband before I am thirty (or to find a husband at all) upsets me. But I have no other choice but to accept that it’s probably what’s going to happen and focus on improving myself in the meantime. Who’s going to marry me if I am jobless anyway ?

    So yes, women are focused on their jobs, but is there really any other way ? Is it wrong for a woman not to want to be a financial burden and to actually bring something to the table when it comes to getting married ?

    • Thanks for your comment.

      And you’re right on many accounts: Western Men are every bit as feminist as Western women.

      For the Man who doesn’t want a feminist for Wife, what’s he to do?

      Go east.

      This idea of “a woman being a financial burden” is a feminist ideology that has been brainwashed into us. No one said this in 1947. There are a lot of guys who want a wife like they used to have in the 40’s – this website addresses that crowd.

    • I have a question-if modern women are soooo damn independent, free and willing to work/make good money these days (which I find completely acceptable), then why does every goddamn date with a Canadian/American woman resemble a job interview with immediate questions about male’s job status, income level, society status, amount of bank savings, the car he drives and a home he owns??
      If women are so independent and making good money, then why do they still want to “sell” themselves” to the highest male bidder on dating market?
      And why don’t they value qualities like honesty, integrity, dignity, respect, mutual understanding and support??

      Care to reply?

        • Because they are already looking forward in time to try and determine what they can get when they break up with you,divorce you and sue you in court. I learned the HARD way like most of my male friends and millions of others have learned when they were robbed of everything they have worked so very hard to earn in their life. Robbed, when the females make false allegations and the anti male/anti father family law courts rule against you and award the female all your shit, garnish your pay checks and half your retirement pension. I just met a guy who retired from the Navy after 30 years of service. Immediately after retiring his wife divorced him and was awarded 50% of his pension payments for the rest of her life. He is now living in a travel trailer barely surviving. HE earned that damn pension and now she gets HALF???? American women are poison! FINALLY I figured things out and discovered eastern European women. Now I’m married to one. Best thing I ever did. I would have done this many years ago,but I didn’t know the opportunity existed.

          • Thanks for your comment Keith. Yes, unfortunately, too many (myself included) only learned this after a nice ass-rape in divorce court.

            Well, pass the word to the up and coming generation of Western Men. Not all will listen but we can save a few.

          • We can try. Ive tried to warn my sons,but they’re brain washed by feminist mother. Oh well. When they get ass raped in court and come crying all I can say is hey, I warned you and you didn’t listen.

        • Thanks, Scott!
          NO answer so far, which was expected. That’s the behavioral pattern of all feminists and feminists in disguise. They always run away when facing some uncomfortable and honest questions about life.
          I honestly doubt they we are gonna get any answer to my questions.

          Oh, and it’s impossible to become fluent in Russian language after mere 2 years spent in Russia;)
          Whereas Ludivine claims that she IS fluent indeed;) If she comes back and replies I’d like to test her “fluency”;)

      • I have no idea why women behave that way. I think it’s true that a lot of them are entitled or picky. My point is that it’s not easy as a woman to find a man willing to have a traditional family. Most men don’t want that. So it really goes both ways.

        • As expected, you gave NO answers to my open and honest questions while resorting to excuses and blaming males.
          It does go both ways indeed, no argument here. But how come I’ve gone through dozens and dozens of “dating job interviews” when living in Canada and absolutely NO female was ever interested in my PERSONAL qualities but everyone was extremely interested in the qualities of my bank account, credit card, savings, cars, apartments etc?

          • Well someone else has to fund their strength and independence. I am surprised most of them are not happily married with kids. Since they are so good at interviewing and performing background checks on prospective husbands in a first world country — with demographics and economics tilted in their favor.

  12. The reason they ain’t all happily married is on the surface;) Western women partake in a life long hunt for a “better” husband/provider thus they never stop conducting “interviews” and never settle. The only goal of every western female is to sell herself to the highest male bidder on a dating market but the search for this bidder is endless resulting in broken lives of both males and females.
    I keep saying that every self respecting male individual should pack his bags and leave western world for good ASAP! This seems to be the only remaining solution. Let western women rot in their own shit. They fully deserve it.

  13. Good article. Great comments. Whenever I hear a millennial woman raving about her college degree and “amazing career” that she loves, I immediately want to ask… degree in WHAT? I don’t consider a technology business owner or trades-person to be equal in intelligence to someone with a liberal arts degree. I find them to be vastly superior, and many times more worldly. Most college educated women now seem to just parrot the social theories from Feminism 101 courses what were rammed into their heads on regressive-liberal campuses. Quite frankly, I find them to be pedantic with an over-estimated sense of just how overall *great* they are.

    Oh my, feminism has been telling you ladies that you’re special snowflakes for 40 years running and now there are just no men alive good enough to marry a woman because she’s got a run-of-the-mill college degree and a job. Ladies: Men have been getting degrees and higher education and jobs for a long long time. You thought it would make you so special (because feminism told just how much of a PRIVILEGE it is to have a career). Thing is, women just can’t seem to get accomplishments in life without becoming self-absorbed narcissists like men do. Women think career is EVERYTHING because feminism said it is everything, so, by extension they seem to believe THEY are all things to everything.

    Well. You’re not. You’ve priced yourselves out of a market and you’re all kind of sh1tty to be around most of the time.

    Thanks feminism. You turned women into crappy people nobody wants to be around.

    • FEMINISM?? Do we have to blame FEMINISM for all this shit happening??
      Ain’t it North American/western males who’ve allowed and often even welcomed and promoted all the modern feminism values like political correctness, affirmative action, quota hiring, tolerance and multiculturalism????
      Feminism can’t do shit if it’s not supported by an overwhelming majority of people in the West be it Canada, USA, Germany, England, Sweden etc.
      Thus do NOT blame feminism, but blame western men for embracing all the mainstream values and never saying a word against them!
      Feminism would’ve never even appeared as some kind of a mainstream if western sheeple hadn’t supported it and promoted it.

      • You said, “Feminism can’t do shit if it’s not supported by an overwhelming majority of people”. Feminism is supported by an overwhelming majority of American women and FORCED down our throats by means of law suits and divorce. The feminist American females feel they are superior to males and treat them with contempt rude belittling behavior. They are extremely demanding and when the males just wont obey their every last demand they divorce you,alienate the children from you and sue for child support,house,car your retirement pension and anything else the man has earned. Look at how many web sited cater to western men looking for foreign wives. HUNDREDS! Look for web sites catering to foreign men looking for American women. NONE! ZERO!!! ZIP!!! No one wants them, thats why! It’s known WORLD WIDE that American women make the worst possible choice for a wife. FACT! Men reading this, do yourself a favor and avoid American women like the ebola virus!

        • Actually, it is much bigger than that.

          Feminism has been accepted at the Federal level and mandated throughout the nation (US speaking). You cannot work in for or around the US government without fully embracing the feminist doctrine. It is now forced training for any government contracts; all employees must undergo “cultural awareness” sensitivity training. This includes the idea that everyone is the same and women are the same as Men. You must accept all differences between people even though they are all the same. It is a bit counter intuitive but it is mandated policy.

          It has trickled down through the universities and is now becoming policy in the high schools and middle schools.

          The folks that are pushing this gender bender equability are the same who push the LGBT agenda. If you look at all of these social activists, you’ll see big money from folks like Soros. You have people who are busy robbing the banks (think TARP) and want the sheeple focused on which is the correct bathroom to use.

          Smoke and mirrors. A people divided are easier to steal from.

      • Which men are you talking about, FC? You haven’t specified on who is to blame. I sure as hell haven’t condoned any of it.

        “FEMINISM?? Do we have to blame FEMINISM for all this shit happening??”

        Yes, it is to blame. It is to blame BEFORE you point the fingers at men because it is the SOURCE of all the bullshit happening. Remember, that 2nd wave feminism started back in the ’60’s for western society, and then brainwashed boys and girls from birth starting around the 1980’s through things like the school system and media until it got progressively worse and worse. If you want to blame any man for this crap, FC, then you need to start focusing more of that on the ELITE men who subsidized this crap back in the day to suit their own agenda. Don’t believe me? Watch this:

        [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCpjmvaIgNA&w=420&h=315

        • I ain’t even gonna watch your video. But I bet it’s full of some kind of conspiracy theories and throws blames at anyone but males in general.
          And YES, I do blame western males in general for allowing this to happen and often promoting the values of feminism and modern mainstream like political correctness, affirmative action, quota hiring, feminism, tolerance and multiculturalism.
          How come I’ve never changed my own views and visions while living in Canada and being bombarded by all kinds of politically correct propaganda?

          • If you ain’t going to watch the video, then you ain’t got any argument to go off of.

            “But I bet it’s full of some kind of conspiracy theories and throws blames at anyone but males in general.”

            Yeah, keep on bettin there genius. You haven’t even watched it, so you got nothin. How about addressing my points instead of going off on your own tangent? Can you do that?

            “How come I’ve never changed my own views and visions while living in Canada and being bombarded by all kinds of politically correct propaganda?”

            Oh by all means, due tell us more about your “propaganda?” Yeah, Canada AND the US have a lot of that, but please keep going on. BTW, I recommend you start a new comment thread since these keep condensing too much.

          • You are funny, man;))
            OK, I did open the page with your video and what do I see in its description?;)
            <<<>>>
            See, I was right indeed;) My QUOTE from a previous message to you:” it’s full of some kind of conspiracy theories and throws blames at anyone but males in general.” END QUOTE.
            Yeah right, it’s Rockefellers, evil bankers and the CIA to blame;) And definitely not a desperate and sex hungry average Joe who hasn’t had sex for 5 years and is willing to go 100 extra miles just to get a sniff of that ever elusive female pussy and who doesn’t even know who Rockefellers are;)
            You ain’t got no arguments since I was right in my guess and you lost;) But you can keep calling me names since that’s your only “argument” left;)
            “Addressing your points”? But where are they, those elusive points? I didn’t see any clear point, just some meaningless and empty blabber about “those evil Rockefellers, dirty bankers and CIA plotting to enforce feminism on those innocent North American males”.
            I assume you live in Canada or USA thus you should know about the daily propaganda on TV, radio and all kinds of newspapers and magazines.

          • You are funny, man;))
            OK, I did open the page with your video and what do I see in its description?;)
            “””” Hollywood producer, filmmaker, activist and truth seeker Aaron Russo reveals some of the REAL reasons for feminism which was funded and pushed by the Rockefellers and the CIA for very nefarious reasons, which includes being part of their central banking worldwide takeover to help set up the New World Order.”””
            See, I was right indeed;) My QUOTE from a previous message to you:” it’s full of some kind of conspiracy theories and throws blames at anyone but males in general.” END QUOTE.
            Yeah right, it’s Rockefellers, evil bankers and the CIA to blame;) And definitely not a desperate and sex hungry average Joe who hasn’t had sex for 5 years and is willing to go 100 extra miles just to get a sniff of that ever elusive female pussy and who doesn’t even know who Rockefellers are;)
            You ain’t got no arguments since I was right in my guess and you lost;) But you can keep calling me names since that’s your only “argument” left;)
            “Addressing your points”? But where are they, those elusive points? I didn’t see any clear point, just some meaningless and empty blabber about “those evil Rockefellers, dirty bankers and CIA plotting to enforce feminism on those innocent North American males”.
            I assume you live in Canada or USA thus you should know about the daily propaganda on TV, radio and all kinds of newspapers and magazines.

  14. Glad I could provide some entertainment for you there, FC. You opened the link, but you didn’t watch the video? Come on man, at least get through the first 3 minutes of it where they talk about feminism. Don’t go telling me that you were right all along when you haven’t even “reviewed the evidence.” That’s like telling me you won a race, but you didn’t even turn the engine on. I promise it’s painless, and you may even get some entertainment from it ;).

    “You ain’t got no arguments since I was right in my guess and you lost;) But you can keep calling me names since that’s your only “argument” left;)”

    UH HUH, keep tellin that to yourself there, dude. Calling you names? What names?? The word “genius?” Okay there, genius ;).

    “sex hungry average Joe” who is under the age of 30 with raging hormones that are constantly screwing with him to “go 100 extra miles just to get a sniff of that ever elusive female pussy.” Guess you left that little part out with your “sexless male” argument ;).

    “But where are they, those elusive points? I didn’t see any”

    Oh God, dude, you aren’t paying attention. Ok, here it is again:

    “Remember, that 2nd wave feminism started back in the ’60’s for western society, and then brainwashed boys and girls from birth starting around the 1980’s through things like the school system and media until it got progressively worse and worse.”

    There you go ;). Chew on that for a bit. Yeah, you are correct, I live in the U.S. but I haven’t paid attention to the daily propaganda from any conventional source in years. I don’t even have cable TV service because YouTube is better ;). Have a nice weekend (despite the rain over there in Ukraine).

    • It ain’t no entertainment after all. And no, I ain’t gonna watch it. YouTube is full of similar videos featuring all kinds of gurus with their predictions, advices etc.
      I’ve seen how feminism works in real life while living in Canada and I do not need no gurus to tell me about it.
      Yes, an average Joe willing to go 100 extra miles just to get a sniff of that ever elusive female pussy can still be sexless for years since there are 100s of similar Joes also willing to go 100 extra miles and a little extra extra mile to get that sniff of a pussy and it ain’t no guarantee that “our” particular Joe will get selected by a female ;) See what I’m saying? ;)
      Rain in Ukraine? What rain?;) It was a warm and sunny day here today and I’ve spent it together with my wife and our kids playing on the beach.

      • Do what you want, FC. But, if you’re not going to bother watching it, then we got nothing to talk about. Seems this is going way off topic anyway. As for the rain I mentioned, that was from what I looked up in google. Looks like it lied to me. Oh well, whatever.

        As for the “sexless Joe” that you seem to be so fond of ;), this can only be explained by the wealth of Canada which sets women’s unrealistic standards. Same goes for the U.S. The more wealthy the country, the more ridiculous the women’s standards become. I have noticed this especially becomes apparent after the age of 25. Everything before that age don’t count.

        • Hey Joel. I see the same in your 2d paragraph, about richer countries. I work next to an English lady, about 28 years old. Just yesterday I was asking her opinion on the marital preferences of her and her friends. She said that having a family or getting married is not even in their or her top goals in life. She said since ladies make their own money now, they feel like they don’t need a man to complete their life or to secure it. And with the internet, there are so many choices for a man, that it makes no sense to just settle for one.

          I explained to her that my experience in Ukraine taught me that the ladies marry younger and want to create a family. Importantly, they are more willing to work on their marriage.

          It was nearly impossible for her to wrap her mind around that, because in her world, there is no such thing, except from her parents generation.

          She said its a different world now. So I emphasize again, head east before the changes occur and stay out of the big cities.

          • “She said that having a family or getting married is not even in their or her top goals in life. She said since ladies make their own money now, they feel like they don’t need a man to complete their life or to secure it. And with the internet, there are so many choices for a man, that it makes no sense to just settle for one.”

            With wonderful attitudes like that there isn’t one good reason in the world to marry one of them. They’ll just end up divorcing the man after the excitement has worn off…while the courts and lawyers assist in the theft of your future earnings.

            “It was nearly impossible for her to wrap her mind around that, because in her world, there is no such thing, except from her parents generation.”

            The average modern western female is not a woman. They have all the girly body parts (often accompanied by rolls of fat and flabby skin) but act masculine.

            Imagine the poor souls waking up next to the beast every morning after begging it for sex the night before. It has a bad attitude, it does not cook, it does not clean, it does not have long hair, it dictates the family budget, it has poor hygiene, etc. What more motivation does a western man need to say no to western women and travel.

          • Hi Rodney ,

            Just to say something about my own personal experiences.
            Long time ago , I knew a girl , she was a friend of my cousin.
            When I first met her , she was just 18 years old.

            A very nice and pleasant girl , to see and to have a conversation with.
            After some months , we more or less , had some sort of relation.

            I must say , that she already had some sort of boyfriend , although he was living in another country.
            Later I learned , that he was her neighbours son.So , they grew up together.

            I must say , that she was just perfectly gorgeous.But , not wantin to make this story too long.
            Things happened , and she didn`t wanted to see me again.

            Her boyfriend , came to join her , and so , there was no place for me.After her study , they moved back to the Original country.
            Then , the relation , did go sour.I don`t know , what actually happened.

            You can of course , understand , that there were many men , who wanted to date her , or even a relation.
            I guess the boyfriend got jealous.

            She then wrote me a letter , and wanted to see me again.Anyway , it was good to see her , and to hear , what she had to say about the way , we parted.

            While she was here , a man , who she knew , came here to see , what she was doing.
            I can`t really say , if she had a deep involvement with him.He was a notary.

            When he arrived here , she stopped contacting me.I learned about all this , many , many years later.

            In fact she went on a vacation with him ,and they went back home , because she had to go to work.

            I got a card , in which she said , that she was going back , because her
            holiday had ended.But I only got the card , 3 days after she had left.

            So , I wrote her ,that I thought , that it was all very suspicious and that she did not give me a good explanation.
            The more so , because she wrote in her letter , that she wanted to see me again , because , she could not forget me.

            And she wanted to have a serious talk with me , about an eventually future and so on.

            So , I asked her in the letter , why she stopped contacting me , and I said , that she needed to give me a good explanation.

            So , well she told me about him coming here etc.
            I wrote her back , and that was the end for me.

            Later I heard , that she married him , and she had 2 children , a boy and a girl.
            After 6 years , the marriage went sour.Because he was cheating on her.

            And , yes , maybe the devil had a hand in this.She contacted my cousin , to arrange some sort of gathering , and she would come there.

            This led to she and I , had some sort of dating and relation.But , of course , I also wanted to know , why she did all this.

            It appeared to me , that she had changed.There was nothing left , of that sweet innocent girl , who I had known before.

            In fact , at one time , after we were seeing each other again she said to me [quote] – NO MAN IS GOING TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO [end quote]

            Guys remember this.This goes much deeper , than what it seems , at the first glance.

            It perfectly portraits , how she sees a man , in her mind , in her own world.

            In 10 or 20 years , feminism , has gotten to her and her friends.Yes , I happen to meet some of them , several times.

            She has only 4 sisters and no brothers.And they are all the same.
            That is , they have ALL transformed into nasty bitches.

            I have seen , how one of them , is treating the man , with whom she lives together (they have 2 sons).

            I can tell you , he is just a “pussy” , if you know what I mean.
            Oh yes , he has a big mouth , WHEN SHE IS NOT AROUND!

            You recognize this ……………. !!!

            It was then , when I dropped the ball and ended the contact with her.

            I can tell you , that my relation with this Polish woman , was far more different and quite the opposite.

            So , no more Western women for me.

            Paul

  15. I dont care about feminism any more. I married a Ukrainian. Problem solved. I wouldn’t touch an American BITCH with a ten foot pole!!

    • That’s what I keep saying for years and years!
      Any self respecting, smart and educated North American male should avoid dating, having a relationship with or getting married with an American/Canadian female! Avoid by all means possible! Let them rot in their own shit spiced with political correctness, affirmative action, quota hiring, tolerance, feminism and multiculturalism.

    • Kind of agree. We have all complained more or less about feminism in the past. Nothing wrong with that. I’m not married but I have noticed most of the men that complain the least about feminism are the ones married to western women or at least dating outside the west. They identified the issues and just fixed the problem. I really don’t care that much about who created feminism…since I’m responsible for myself…I’ll just find a way to fix my problem.

      • I meant…

        “I have noticed most of the men that complain the least about feminism are the ones married to non-western women or at least dating non-western women outside of the west. “

        • You’re right Seeker. The English lass, about 28 y/o, does not cook even for herself. My wife has been cooking for her (for a small price, some entrepreneurship is blooming). One evening, she left work and came back because she forgot a can of soup in her shelf that she needed for dinner that night.

          • So funny! How on earth are they capable of taking care of a child or even show a bit of womanly appreciation to someone without even being able to cook? I’m noticing an even stranger phenomenon developing in the west over the years…men are better cooks than women. I actually know many western girls that cannot even boil water…pathetic.

  16. Scott ,

    So , your daughter doesn`t know , which is the front or the rear of the tv , yes ?
    But then , she will observe how you work on the tablet , and the cell Phone.

    And sooner or later she will figure it out , how to determine , which is the interesting side of the tv.
    and maybe also understands , how to power it up.

    So , then it`s time , to cut the powercord from the tv , I guess …

    Paul

    • yes, she takes the iPhone and talks on it, copying my Wife in a negotiation. And so? Time in, time out, effort in, effort out. We will RAISE our daughter in a traditional sense. If it works for the Amish, Mormons, Aermenians, Jews and Mennonites, why not for us?

      You can’t just flee every time you don’t like the situation you have. Flee if you can, but if you can’t, you just have to work harder. Most parents turn on the TV and walk away because it is easier.

      • Yup, it’s oh so easy to make a TV work like a digital nanny. Many families let a TV raise their children and then wonder why kids interact like those cartoon figures/heroes and completely disrespect their parents.
        No nanny, TV, radio, Playstations and Xboxes will never be able to replace mother’s attention and kindness and father’s wisdom and power.

      • Sure , I understand that you have this idea , of how to raise your child.And yes , I believe it has great benefits , when she doesn`t learn , all the possibilities , of the different devices , at such a young age.

        And she doesn`t become a game player , playing for many hours nonstop.

        Personally I think , it is good to teach children the more important things in life.
        And doing activities outside the house , is better , than to sit inside all day.

        I hope that you will be succesful , in reaching your goal.
        Me , I`m not a tv watcher , unless it is about great news , or intersting topics.
        Or big sports events.

        • It does make you think. Most (older) children and teens in the west are influenced more by their peers, cliques, and the media than their parents, family, and leaders of their local community as priests, entrepreneurs, successful businessman, etc.
          It will probably take some major extra effort to keep out negative influences…starting from when their babies.

          • Yes , up to some point , as a parent , you may have some influence , on some of their life`s interests.

            But the influence of today`s technology , should not be under-estimated.

            At school , children already get some of their lessons , on a tablet or computer.
            They learn about the internet , what it can do and accomplish.All this is in Holland.

            Well , as you know , we are very progressive in exploring the possibilities , of this tech era.

            The consensus is , that learning about it , in an early stage , will get you better prepared , for a future and a job , in this world.
            This will also , make it easier , for the child , to decide , what type of work , she/he wants to have , as a grown up.

            Technology has many benefits , but there is a down side also

            Paul

    • Good article indeed! The problem is that modern ladies even need that kind of a book just to barely understand how a normal , healthy and evolving relationship should work… And most of them still won’t be able to get a grip of it.

    • Maybe it is me being cynical, but I think this lady just came to a realization in her life.

      People do not like to be alone. I think many WM are finding themselves alone and being forced to cover their ideals, just to not be alone. Someone who has lived the majority of their lives believing one way, just do not change in a few years.

      The problem is what has happened to men in the west over these years. The damage has been done and it will take generations to repair, if it can be. Men here are weak. I just helped a buddy pack up and move to PA to be with a woman he met about 6 months ago. Hell, he did not even upgrade LOL! I give it maybe 6 months to a year, until the P dries up for him or she finds another sucker to pay her bills.

      • TOTALLY AGREE, Bryan!! Totally, damn it!
        Western women are looking for some kind of a refuge, YES, for a run from their loneliness! They don’t really care about building a strong and evolving family, but they do care about themselves and their loneliness. And if they can play a “family game” with a man while pretending to be a good wife then they’ll go for it.

        And YES, MEN are the problem in the west, not women! The damage done to men is irreversible.
        Western males are weak mentally. They may have all those fancy gym memberships but they run like rabbits as soon as they encounter a minor problem in their lives.
        Yes, western/American males will go to PA, NY, Fla., Mass., etc just to get a sniff of a pussy, ANY pussy!
        Somehow they believe that they can buy love or attract love with a mere move from one state or county to another. Ain’t gonna happen!

    • Hey Rodney, Good article there…I just read it. Damn reading her words completely reminded me about my X wife…and she was Russian…but extremely feminist. I have never understood why it is so hard to comprehend these very basic ideas of human nature. I went through marriage counseling 4 times trying to make it work and neither myself or the counselors could even get these basic idea to her. Too bad…she is a miserable person. I have seen it many if not most of my divorced friends (even my Slavic divorced guy friends) marriages just like this.

      • Hey John,

        Are you still looking to find your EE woman, although it didn’t work out with your ex? Sorry to hear that it went south. My #1 goal for anyone looking for an EE lady, is to double check that she hasn’t dated a western man before. Its just putting more of the odds on your side that you’ll find the keeper. To me, an EE lady who has dated several westerners, is contaminated (spoiled), so don’t waste your time.

        • Good advice indeed! Any EE female who’s dated one or several westerners already got that “feminism seed” into her head and will slowly turn into an “alien” inside;) Remember an alien coming out of a human body in the movie?;) A feminist is worse than an alien;)
          I’ll even go further and strongly discourage western males from coming to EE at the moment. Stay where you are and look around, check what’s going on in the EE and be very careful with what you wish.
          I’m becoming very skeptical regarding all this thing with EE trip for western males at this particular moment. Save your money, may be go see a hooker or two, and just play a waiting game for a year or even two.
          I can elaborate if there is a demand for that.

        • Hi Rodney,

          Yes I have jumped back into the game since my divorce. She never dated other western guys before we met but her issues were something different and deeper. I will be heading to Ukraine on the 22nd of this month to go spend more time with my gal.

          I don’t know about what you mean by gals who have dated many westerners….for me I would tend to say that most EE gals that are serious about finding a mate will not spend too many years dating guy after guy after guy. I think the serious women will be like a serious guy and weed through the crap and only focus on her good one. EE women have no desire to waste a lot of time on a lot of different men on the other side of the world. They want love and family and not to spend a lot of time in the game. From my experience women who date so many guys are more apt to be “professional daters” or scammers (and I do not always separate the two).

          • Hey John,
            I brought my wife from Ukraine a year and a half ago. I tried my best to sort out issues and be aware of any in advance,but stuff you dont know surfaces. I asked if she had good relations with her mother, (her father is dead and she’s an only child). Sure, she said of course, everything is good! Now Ive found out she basically hates her mother, essentially wants nothing to do with her and calls her once every two months at the most. VERY disappointing to me,as I wanted someone close with their family. Plus I wanted to travel to Ukraine once a year which was another “sure, of course, because I need to visit mother and check on my flat”. Now she doesn’t give a rats ass about mother and doesnt want to go to Ukraine unless it is absolutely necessary. Another disappointment. However, even with a few issues we do have, I can say she is very feminine,loving,tolerant and has American females beat hands down. If I could do it over again I probably would keep looking, but you know, whoever you do find, there will be issues. You just have to be prepared to handle them and make the best of it. If her and I end up going separate ways I am moving to Ukraine. I know two other Americans who live there. I would rent or buy a house in the suburbs with a little land so I could have things to do and keep busy. I really enjoy spending time in Ukraine and hope to go again soon. have a great trip!

          • You “asked” her about her relationship with her Mother?

            I knew my in-laws well before I proposed.

            My Wife comes from a good family – they are a pillar in our relationship.

            If you have to ask your Wife about her relationship with her Father and her Mother, you don’t know her well enough to get married.

          • Hi Kieth,
            Yes there are always those surprises that come with any relationship as the the bait that women put out is not always reality. I wish my issues with my first relationship were that simple to be honest.
            Even in my current relationship there is some family drama. Just a part of any relationship anywhere. Having been through the ringer once I am much better prepared at this point in my life. And to be honest I was very stupid the first go around.
            Yes, in the villages over there or suburbs you could have a place cheap by western standards. But beware if you do not occupy it year around.

          • Hi John,

            Wishing you a great trip and holiday with your lady. Definitely one of my favorite times in EE with Novi Got. I’ve spent about 6 New Year’s in EE and they are always great.

            Regarding my comments about EE women dating multiple westerners, you made my point more clearer. My focus was to let that be the red flag (i.e., too much exposure to western men = spoiled or “professional daters.” Pretty much the same general basket: It won’t be serious).

            Drop us a line from Ukr if you get a chance. Would love to read your thoughts or comments.

            Bude maw!

          • Hey Rodney,
            Yeah I will definitely drop a line when I am in Ukraine. This should be an interesting trip for me. I will officially being meeting the parents this time. I have met the folks online but this time we will be with them for several days. We are also going to be in Lviv for a couple of days…so any recommendations there from you guys would be appreciated. This will be my first time in Lviv.
            I wish I could stay there for the new year but I have to be back in the States prior. It is only a week long trip. I wish i could stay a couple moths but my business and time with my kids does not allow.

          • John,

            Safe trip man. What part of Ukraine are you headed too? Wish I could help with Lviv, but my only visit was a quick one to drop the lady’s son off at school.

            Wish you the best luck and stay warm LOL!

  17. Hey John,

    Been to Lviv several times. Just head to the center of town. There will be a lot going on due to the upcoming holidays. All kinds of shops, churches, and restaurants to be had. My first New Year’s with my to-be-wife, was spent in Lviv.

    Its quickly modernizing, as its so close to Poland, so the residents are bringing the money home. Plus, I believe at one point, it was part of Poland and you’ll see that in the architecture.

    You may bump into some US soldiers. They’ve been down there nearly two years training up the Ukrainian recruits. Word back to me, is that the US guys are loving it there (gee, I wonder why).

    Nearby, if you are a skier, there are some slopes to be had. Some of the best in the Carpathians.

    Enjoy!

  18. Geez, I wish I could go back in time 20 years and tell myself to get on a plane to Ukraine NOW. Many, many years of unsuccessful dating – one woman was vegan, one didn’t like to talk about technology (I’m in computers), one didn’t like Chinese food – and I had to take all of these into account to even get a second date! I’m not Tom Selleck, but I’m not Quasimodo either, and I dressed nicely, and made sure both of us talked. Finally married a woman who was looking for a meal ticket – stepson & stepdaughter nearly bled me dry. She moved out after I told her I wasn’t going to take her crap any more (i.e. no more meal ticket). Got divorced about six months later (MLK – “Thank God Almighty I’m free at last!). Was 56 and didn’t know where to go.

    Figured I’d look into EE women since the ones in USA are vain, greedy, self centered pigs who think only of themselves. But I digress.

    My cousin married a woman he met in Kazakhstan when he was with the Peace Corps. Lived in a lousy village (no electricity or running water). They’re now in Florida with two kids and happier than any married couple with a wife from here.

    I met a lovely girl online and instantly had a cam chat with her. Friendly, kind, started our first meeting with a joke and bright, friendly attitude. Fell in love almost immediately. Would have gone over and put a ring on her finger except for the goddamn Russian army (she’s in Lugansk). In the interim, I sent flowers, baskets of goodies, etc. Her mother said I was sent by God for them (!!!) because they had NO food. Talked with her, let her vent over the war and how bad things were. Made sure I was there for her all the time. Not sure who, but someone put a GRAD rocket launcher on her roof. Doubt the structural analysis involved military hardware. She withstood it. Many in apartment complex had no food – they all met in the commons area and brought what they had (some brought nothing). Lit fires, made soup and food and everyone, from the smallest baby to the oldest babushka got some, regardless of what they gave. Would we have done the same?

    Things are quiet now but we still talk; lots of romance (used to send the ex flowers until I learned she was throwing them away). Sending my EE girlfriend flowers for the millionth time (the site has limited gifts) and she is delighted – tells me I am the best man in the world!

    Guys, if you haven’t experienced a relationship with a Slavic woman, d yourselves a favor. GO THERE. Find a reputable site (look for IMBRA) and talk with her. Send flowers and other gifts – she will love you for it. Think about where to live when you get married. We’ve talked about Bulgaria since it’s relatively close to Ukraine and she could still see her mom and friends. When I suggested this, it was like I had given her a million dollars! She always thought I would pick a place to live and she would just follow me. When she learned that she and I would talk together about issues and mutually decide, she was delighted! As soon as Putin’s goons leave, I’m on a plane to Lugansk to find the woman that I can spend the rest of my life with. The woman to whom I can give gifts and she will thank me and give me a kiss and a hug. NOT the woman who, when I came home from the job, said “Oh, it’s you”.

  19. American women are such very horrible creatures altogether now since they have the worst personality and no respect for us good men at all. They want a rich man since these type of women are usually a bunch of users and losers as well since they will only want the very best and will never settle for less because of their greed and selfishness.

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