… Beautiful Woman in Sevastopol, Ukraine…
You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.
This has always been a problem for me in my life. I see something clearly and after I tell someone else about it, I expect that they will see what I see. But this isn’t always the case. Everyone has their own experiences, their own history: they see the world through their filters. And so, when I try to tell my nephews that they should do “this or that,” they shrug and move on in their lives making the same mistakes I and their fathers made.
Only when someone wants to learn or be educated, to change or be changed can good advice have any real meaning.
This brings us to you. You are here for a reason. Perhaps you came after a Google search or you saw a link on Facebook. Maybe you were looking for pictures of beautiful Russian Women or you were just curious about Eastern Europe. There are many reasons that lead people to this site but it is written for that select group of Men who are frustrated with what has become of the Western woman and they are looking for an alternative. For these Men, by arriving here, they now have a new option.
However, seeing the option doesn’t mean that you will act on it just as the horse doesn’t always drink once it is led to the pond. Many many Men will suffer from confidence issues (she’s too hot for me), some will fall victim to apathy (it’s too hard to fly overseas) and some will procrastinate until they are old Men (I’ll go “next year,” after I’ve lost 10 pounds).
… How do you know that you’re in Eastern Europe? Tall heels, firm legs, tight skirts and pants, high fashion and beautiful Women…
And so, coming here, lets assume that you’ve come for the right reasons and that you really want to break out of the paradigm of Western feminism. What would be my advice to you? I’m going to break it down by age group because I would give completely different advice to a 16 year old young-Man who wants to marry a foreign woman as compared to a 65 year old retired widow who’s children already have children of their own.
We’ll start with the Young Man 16-22:
First, LEARN RUSSIAN! Or, if you’re planning on going to Columbia, LEARN SPANISH! Now that I’m able to get around and converse in Spanish and Russian, I cannot say enough how important speaking a 2nd language is! It is like the difference between having glasses or not when you’re as blind as a bat. If you are 16, 18, 22 and you want to go East to find a Wife, START NOW to learn Russian. If your High School offers Russian classes, take them. If not, get a book and start learning basic letters, sounds and vocabulary. Download Pimsleur’s Russian and listen to those tapes. Buy a “learn Russian” book and read it with regularity. When you enroll in University, TAKE RUSSIAN LANGUAGE CLASSES.
One of the hardest challenges in meeting a Russian Woman is the logistics of it. Who has time to fly to Siberia when they have a job and a life? Well, if you learn Russian, by the time you graduate University, you might just get recruited by a European company and stationed in Russia, Ukraine or Belarus. I can’t begin to explain to you what a wonderful life it would be, to be on a Western salary in an Eastern city knowing the language. You will be the most eligible bachelor in town and the Women will be fighting, nails and all, to have you.
But even if you don’t speak Russian by the time that you graduate from University, there are ways around the language – find an English-speaking Russian Woman. Again, the logistics are everything. If I was 22 right now I would be applying for jobs in Dubai, Quatar, Bahrain and/or any other international airline hub that I could find. The life of an airline flight crew in Dubai is nothing short of a never-ending fraternity party attended by beautiful stewardesses from every country on the planet.
I once dated an Emirates Airlines stewardess. She lived in the U. P. Towers in downtown Dubai with an incredible ocean view on the 25th floor. The building housed only unmarried flight crew – stewards and stewardesses, pursers and co-pilots. When you were promoted to pilot they moved you to a “more exclusive” building. I heard many a pilot complain that they wanted to stay in the UP Towers. While the building was owned by Ultimate Properties, the pilots all had a name for the building, they called the the “Ultimate Pussy Towers.” And for good reason.
One time, while my girlfriend was on a flight, I went to the pool on the roof. In the elevator I saw (in the mirror), myself, another guy – a gay (Male) flight attendant and 6 of the most beautiful flight attendants, one from China, one from Germany, one from Poland, one from Ukraine, one from Thailand and one from Romania. When the elevator doors opened to the gym and pool, I was one of only 3 or 4 Men and 40 or 50 Playboy-looking models in bikinis. Of the 3 or 4 Men, I’m sure I was the only straight guy.
My point? How hard, being one of the only straight Male flight attendants (or be a pilot if you can pass the training) would it be to land a girlfriend from Ukraine or Serbia or Belarus? Not hard at all. You’ll be fighting the Women off.
Which direction you go right out of University will set the pace of the rest of your life. Marry the feminist college girlfriend that you’ve been “experimenting” with for the last 4 years (meanwhile, she’s been “experimenting” with her girlfriends and you as well) and soon you’ll find yourself in a mortgaged house, 1 or 2 spoiled children that you’ll be expected to raise and a fat & entitled Western woman who’s looking to dump you and the family so that she can pursue her passion for art or some other nonsense.
If you go to college in the West, by all means, have fun. But don’t get saddled down with a feminist woman. It will most likely turn out bad for you and the statistics tell us this much.
Career Man 22-35
Now, lets say that you’ve already finished college/uni and you’ve taken your career path and now you’re working. You’re probably 25-35, you’ve been dating and you don’t understand what’s wrong with you that you can’t land a decent wife. NOTHING. There is nothing wrong with you. The women you are dating are defective. We know this because they come from a defective feminist culture. The ONLY cure is to go shopping outside of the store with the defective products. In this case, you need to go to Ukraine or Russia to find a Wife.
… even the most “ordinary” Woman goes to every length to look fashionable…
If you’re in this bracket, your best bet is to join one of the online agencies and to began looking at (and eventually talking to – via Skype/email/IM) dating Women from Eastern Europe. Don’t expect to find a Wife in the first month, or the second. It took me a few years before I found my Wife. You may have to make several trips over. You may even date a few different Women before you find the right Woman for you. But in the end, it is worth it. The cost of a plane ticket to Kiev is a lot less than divorce court with a fat and entitled American woman.
But, as in the case with the advice I gave for Men under the age of 23, you should follow the same advice to LEARN RUSSIAN. Welll, as much Russian as you can. If you can learn Russian, the world will open to you over there. If you can’t, just knowing some worlds will help out. If you can’t speak Russian, you will ONLY be able to date English-speaking Women. If you speak Russian, you can date ANYONE.
Dating a “local girl” is easy. And it is convenient. And it is soft on the confidence level. Going “single” for a long time is hard because face it, it takes a certain level of discipline and confidence. Stepping out of your own country and culture to find a Wife isn’t easy, if it was, everyone would do it. But, for certain work and risks in life, there are rewards that are worth the sacrifice.
“Veteran” Man 36-50
Getting in to this age category, we’re going to have some divergence: never married Man, divorced Man and single-Father. Which sub-category you fall into is going to have some effect on my advice to you. If you’re a never-married Man without children, your advice is going to be about the same as for the 22-35 year old Men. Get online, start talking to some Women and make a visit to the East. It really is that simple (and that hard). Learn some (or all) Russian and good luck in your search.
If you’re a divorced Man without kids, so far as I’m concerned, that’s about the same as a Widow without kids. You’re free from family and many (most) Eastern European Women want children of their own. You’ll either want children, or you won’t. Search for Women who are looking for the same.
Now, for those single Dads out there, this is a whole new game. You REALLY need to make sure that you’re on the same page with your Woman on the desire to have children. And because, invariably, the Women are so HOT in Eastern Europe that you will find it increasingly difficult to think with your big head. You’ll see a Woman who writes “maybe” for having children and she’s only writing maybe because she doesn’t want to scare off Men who are undecided – in reality, if she is from Eastern Europe, she most likely wants children. And seeing that she’s so hot, you think, “Well, I can turn maybe into no.” And you pursue her, date her, marry her and bring her to the West and then fail to fulfill her (and her Mother’s and Grandmothers’) desire for children and she leaves you for some younger guy who wants kids.
If you don’t want children, only date who also don’t want children.
If you are a single-father, you had better be very sure that she doesn’t mind that you have children. There are some Women in the East who are desperate to go West. They are looking for a SUCKER to fool into bringing them over. Who’s the easiest target (aside from the guy who has no game whatsoever) to scam a Green Card out of? The guy with kids who’s looking for a surrogate Mom. Does she want to be Mother to your children? You had better be 100% sure before you commit.
If you have children and want more, this will be a little easier. A Woman who wants children is more likely to also be inclined to help raise your previous spawn. But a Woman who doesn’t want her own kids, she is less likely to want yours either. No matter how you slice it, you really need to talk about these issues, and I mean bluntly, before you go and get your heart tied up in a knot. If you are wise and persistent, you have a world of possibilities. If you are blind and desperate, you might as well just stay at home.
Seasoned Man 50+
Any Man who has children under the age of 18 – refer back to Veteran Man. For the Seasoned Men, in their 50’s or later years, you are really in two groups. Those who want kids (or more kids) and those who do not. Most of the other advice applies to you – go looking, learn Russian, etc. But, for those who want children, you’re going to have a bit of a tight walk. You’ll need to find a Woman young enough to have children but not so young that she will reject you based solely on your age. I think that about a 10 year age spread is about it, and in some cases, 15 years (depending on how young you look, how fit you are and how rich you are).
… Where in America can you take a photo of a thin Mom and in the background have a another beautiful Woman in a tight skirt fit in the same frame? If it was Iowa, you would need a very wide lens…
And so, if you are 60 and you want children, you’re going to need to date a Woman who is younger than 40. How much younger? Figure 2 years for courting and dating – I’d say, no younger than 37. If you want 2 kids, 35. Best chances are to find a Woman between 32-37 who finds you acceptable. This age dilemma is a two edged sword that can work in your favor. A Woman who is in her mid to late 30’s, who wants children, well, she sees the writing on the wall. If you’re a fit Man, maybe even a decade or two her senior, who also wants children, she may find you acceptable. Experiences vary. You won’t know til you give it a try.
As for the Men who don’t want children, unless you’re Clint Eastwood or a Man of financial means, you can forget about dating a 22 year old Ukrainian supermodel if you’re 67 years old with a ginormous beer gut. Lets just face reality. If you want that fantasy, you can check out this website. The more realistic scenario for a 65 year old Man (divorcee or widow) who is looking for a Wife is to find a Woman who already has grown children. Think, 45 year old Woman, her 18 year old daughter has already departed for University. She is open to the idea of migrating to the West. She is divorced or (more likely) a widow herself. I can say, with 100% conviction, that there are a lot of HOT Russian Moms out there who are in the 40-50 age range. I’m often astonished when I look at Women in Russia and I think, “Body of 24 year old, a few crow’s wrinkles round the eyes…” It is amazing how hot a Woman can look who walks, dresses in a dress and heels and doesn’t eat (regularly) at McDonalds.
What’s the bottom line? The one bit of advice that I offer to all Men, in all age groups, is to look for a Wife outside the West. Whether you are 16 or 76, you will more likely do better and be happier with a Russian Wife than you will if you have an American wife. Every day, as I meet other Men, and they look at my Wife, they always say, “You’re so lucky.” Yeah, and luck = preparation and planning. You can choose your own luck. If you marry an American woman, you’ll must likely be unlucky. To be lucky, you need to set yourself up for success. Unfortunately, probably fewer than 5% of American women, today, are marriage-quality women. Even if they look and sound the part, there is the underlying feminism that teaches Man-hate, a desire for equality in all things and a bad attitude that comes along with it.
In the end, you’ll have to make the best decision for your life. I’ve brought you to the watering trough. Whether or not you drink is your choice.
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