As I’m raising a small child, I sometimes see that she gets upset and wants to cry and cry and spirals into an emotional trap. I see other children get into little “tantrums” and the parents don’t put a stop to it. There seems to be an idea that a kid can “cry out” their emotion. I remember watching the dog whisperer and he explained that dogs (who are more like people than we realize) will get into an excited state and then it is hard to control them. Better, he says, is to quickly prevent “tantrums” by making small corrections. I have tried this with our daughter and it works great. When she starts getting fussy, we first make sure everything is covered: dry diaper, has slept, is fed, has been loved, etc. If she’s just being cranky, we give her a hug and some affection. If she just wants to have a tantrum, rather than just put her to bed or to put her down, I use the sternest voice I can and I tell her to calm down. This usually works, her “tantrum” is interrupted and then she gives me a hug and calms down.
I wonder, during the 70’s with all of this “new aged” parenting and feminism if we just let the ladies have tantrums when they were a year, 5 years and at 20 years. I look at the behavior of American women and it reminds me so much of little children.
Have a look at this woman. She’s an ADULT. She’s MARRIED. It seems like her Daddy never told her “no.” Her husband never told her “no.” She throws a fuss her whole life and gets what she wants.
Do you think anyone, ever, told this woman “No?” She acts like if she just throws a tantrum, she will get whatever she wants in life. How many American women have you dated that act like this?
Western women act ridiculously because they can. They act like fools because it is accepted and no one ever said “no.” There is nothing you can do to beat it, it is part of our society. The only way to win at this game is “not to play.”
I was watching a rather hysterical video recently, wherein a young girl thinks that England is close to Jupiter. Makes me cringe at how dumb American kids are. I clicked on a few of her other videos and I found this one. Think about this now, not only is this ridiculous behavior tolerated, it is applauded to the tune of 1.37 million views. The girl gets a monthly check from YouTube for her antics. What kind of wife and mother will she become? Think about it.
Albeit, she is still young. But at what point do the parents grab her by the ear and say, “Straighten up, quit acting like a child?” As I look around, so many young ladies (and boys) are never told “no.” They get what they want when they fuss and act like big crybabies. You’ve seen it in the grocery store, a kid has a fit when their parent says no, the kid hollers and then the parent folds like a hose of cards. Just pathetic. And the boys, don’t get me started on the she-male metro-sexual generation of 11 year old boys I see today. They walk and act like a gay parade in San Francisco and are as effeminate as a Victorian-era young lady of the 19th Century.
I’ve been studying my Spanish and Russian in the way of letting YouTube videos run in the background while I’m working and I came across this Russian tutor. Compare her to the two women above. Listen to her poise and grace (and cute accent) and imagine, “Who would you rather be married to?”
I tell you, it is so easy to practice my Russian with that pleasant voice in the background. I’m listening to my Russian verbs as I type this and it is a pleasant sound. Compare this tutor, her demeanor, her style of dress, her unassuming nature compared to that wildebeest from the first video.
Men, if you haven’t been East yet, what are you waiting for?
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