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East and West: A glaring disparity

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Back from a bit of a hiatus on this blog; work, hobbies and some other interests have taken up any free time I’d had for writing.  But I’m on a flight today and nothing to do but write so I thought I’d just dive back in.

The photo above was taken at a Midwestern airport in the United States yesterday.  When I saw this mid-50’s American man with his oversized American gut, I couldn’t help but notice his wife: a stunningly beautiful Asian woman.  Thankfully, this guy didn’t kowtow to her, chase her around or kiss her ass.  Quite to the contrary, she scurried along behind him – carrying their baby, just barely able to keep up.  He was acting like a man and she obviously respected him for it.  You look at this guy through the prism of Western Feminism and you (I did this myself) roll your eyes, “Oh, this guy; had to get a foreign wife because he can’t compete.”  I almost smack my own forehead for letting this feminist backwash thinking take root into my own mind.

But, let’s REALLY think about this.  He OBVIOUSLY CAN COMPETE.  He just stepped “outside of the box.”  He sidestepped the pitfall of feminism that says that a man can only use his looks or his age to compete.  This guy is competing with financial or other means.  Maybe this woman just wants a man who will support her financially, love her unconditionally and treat her like a woman.  Perhaps she doesn’t want all of the western soap opera drama that most American women digest with wanton regularity.

Three cheers for this guy.

This morning, in Chicago, when I went to my departure terminal headed for Warsaw, the size of the women shrank by about 40 pounds.  The dresses got tighter.  The boots got taller.  The women fixed themselves up.  I looked out to the hall, as fat teenage American high school and college girls in sweat pants and unkempt hair waddle by.  The average American 18 year old girl is bigger than an average 30 year old Eastern Woman.  It was like standing on the Nile River, green on one side, Sahara Desert on the other.  Stunning model-looking women on one side, fat feminazis on the other.  Most of us don’t see it.  It isn’t until someone mentions it to you and then you look around and you notice it.

And then I landed in Warsaw.

Geez, even the cops are hot!

The customs girls, the cops, the x-ray techs, the hostess at the coffee shop, the baggage attendants, they are all thin and wearing skirts.  Its like being on an episode of Mad Men or living in 1963.  In the row ahead of me on my Chicago-Warsaw flight, a woman in her late 20’s, a little boy and girl in tow was going home to visit her parents in East Europe.  Her husband is an American and he is staying in the US to work.  This woman, after spitting out two kids was still a size 4 – she dressed in super tight jeans and a low cut top – not overdone on the makeup, but elegant.  She was a MILF and it was hard not to stare.  There were a dozen more like her on this flight.

And now I sit, on my flight from Warsaw to Kiev, on my way to meet the woman that I met – by chance encounter – on my last visit.

There are quite a few Western Men on this flight.  I’ve spotted UK & American passports at the check in queue.  To my right are two good-looking men in their 30’s.  They look like they are going to go mountain climbing or as if they came off the cover of a GQ magazine.  They are probably marriage broker tourists and will begin a tour in Kiev or have come to meet some woman that they’ve been corresponding with.  Two rows behind them is a loud-overweight American with a Michigan University sweater on that hardly covers the enormity of his gut.  Good for him to get an Eastern Wife, so long as he doesn’t bore her to death like he’s doing to the captive Ukrainian Woman sitting next to him.  I hope this poor sod hasn’t dumped $4k on Anastasia emails already.

6 weeks in Ukraine – or elsewhere if my travel legs take me – and I hope to blog along the way.  Do drop by over the next few weeks as I have no work, no interruptions, nothing but time to travel and blog.  Shoot me an email if you have any questions or feel free to leave a comment here.

Cheers

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Your blog is spot on!

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… Ukrainian Woman on Odessa’s Derbasivskaya Street last summer…

I received this email from a reader.  I thought I’d share his insights and answer his question online:

Hi Scott

I’ve just been reading your blog on the western women and Ukraine and
it’s spot on. I’m from Eastern Europe myself, but the sad thing is
that when Ukraine, Belarus and Russia ends, a new kind of a hybrid
nations emerges. The part of Europe I’m from is starting to become
another USA or Germany in the attitude of the women even though their
average weight is still somewhat similar to the Ukrainian one, so you
think they’d be the same, but they are as annoying as the western
women. I’d say that most of them walk around like they’re constipated,
no joy, just complaints to hammer through.

I’ve lived in the UK for many years now and I will most likely start
my search in Ukraine or Russia as well, but there are way too many
scams going. I don’t even know how legitimate this marriageagencyscams dot com, for all I know it could be just a big ad for Elena’s Models to downgrade all her competition.

I’m not sure about this website, it is something to look into – I’ll check it out and post more on it later.

My luck is that because Ukraine was under my country’s influence in
the past, the language has borrowed many words, and I’ve started to
learn Russian which branched off from a common source in the 18th
century, so the grammar is very similar to my own. I should be fluent
within a year. I don’t believe you can date someone through a 3rd
party if she knows little English.

I wanted to wish you all the best in your search and thank you for
starting the blog. The photos of the old guys looked hilarious, but on
the other hand, I don’t get why they are so gullible and they wouldn’t
hire an escort which is effectively the same, but with some more
action to it.

All of this has lead me to my final question, please. Do you believe
there are any legitimate sites out there where I can start a
correspondence with a lady to find out if she’s truly interested (I’m
educated, 29, an IT professional and really down-to-earth, so it could
actually happen). I’m not good at talking to random women in clubs
when the music’s hammering and you have to lean forward to shout into
her ear, and I thought some initial help through an agency to find the
ones that actually want to get married could be helpful.

Thank you and I hope you’d have the time to answer me, please.

Cheers,

Andre

Andre: I’m not exactly sure which agencies are legitimate (aside from the Odessa site that I’ve listed on my front page links).  I plan to investigate some different agencies and post what I’ve found here.  If any of you have any experience (good, bad or otherwise) with marriage agencies, please share your results by way of a comment or send me an email.

thanks,

Scott

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Get Her To Notice You

No game whatsoever

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First and foremost, the purpose of this post is to educate.  I intend to share some of the pitfalls that western men encounter when they come to the CIS (former USSR countries), especially dealing with marriage brokers and agencies.

All that said, have a look at some of these photos.  Do they look a little ridiculous to you?  That’s because they are ridiculous.  I’ve talked to hundreds of western men and they all tell me about how this or that woman loves them or wants to meet them – but they’ve never even talked to the woman, they’ve relied on a marriage agency for communication.  If you are going to communicate to a woman using an agency you have to KNOW that the agency is honest.

I have had dealings with Anastasia, Brides of Ukraine and IDC and I can say that they are all bogus!

If you look at these photos and you don’t believe that these guys have a chance in hell of marrying one of these women you have to wonder  how did they come to have dates with these women.  The reason is that these agencies have LIED to these men telling them that these women are interested in a relationship.  I’ve sat through lunch or dinner and watched and listened to hundreds of these dates and they are all pretty much the same.  The girls ask the same questions, say flattering things to the men and the men REALLY believe that they have a shot at these beauties.

It is all really quite sad.

In the photo above, in Odessa’s walking district, this guy has a date with the woman in pink.  The interpreter in red/white polka dots is the interpreter.  I’ve seen this woman on ‘dates” with other men using different interpreters and I’ve seen these interpreter on other dates with different women.  The interpreter charges US $10 to $15 per hour and pays the woman $5 per hour to  “milk the date out” as long as she can.

And so, these men take these women out for expensive dates, buy them gifts and pay interpreters for date after date that never goes anywhere.

If you are thinking of coming to the CIS to meet a woman and you are using an agency, think again.

In the photo above, this western man is out on a date with a young woman and her interpreter.  The entire park – I mean EVERYBODY – stopped, and watched as they walked by.  I saw everything from incredulous looks to outright laughter.  The Ukrainians, Russians, Turks & even other Westerners couldn’t believe that this guy thought he was on a real date.  It was so obvious that it was a scam.  As I took the photo above I saw a husband, wife and daughter openly laughing at the “date” as they passed (below).

A photo is worth a thousand words.  I saw this “couple” at the Irish bar at the corner of Ekaterinburg & Deribasivskaya Streets in Odessa’s walking district.  This Indian man bought this woman dinner and cocktails and if you look at her body language and the look on her face, you can see how interested she is in him.  I was staring at them for so long that I caught her notice and she began giving me signs that she was interested in talking to me!  This poor chump dumped a load of money on a woman who has no interest in him.

Don’t EVER write letters to women using marriage agencies.  You aren’t talking to the woman, some secretary is answering your letters.  Don’t use an agency interpreter – if they require it for the first date, close the date out quickly and make an appointment to meet with your own interpreter.  Any sign of resistance to this proposition is evidence of fraud.

Be forewarned.  I know many will read this and go and do it anyways.  You’ll have no one to blame but yourself.

And for heaven’s sake, if you do go to Ukraine or another CIS country, dress up a bit.  The men above scream “poverty” with the clothes that they are wearing.  No Eastern Woman will take you seriously when you’re wearing a “Joe’s Carwash” t-shirt.  Geez..

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